Why does this have to happen to me?

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Alright heres the scenario.... Theres this girl I've liked scince ive started my new school last year in march. I mean I really Really like her. problem is

A) She's dating this guy who thinks he's all that. He's nice to me but I just dont like him.
B) I always get real tense around her when I talk to her and I try and pretend im all that.

I dont expect to do anything Im just venting cause I really wish someday she would like me. She thinks im funny. But still i dunno. What Im gonna do is try to loosin up and be her close friend and then someday when they break up then make my move. Im not trying to sound like a jerk but all is fair in love and war

Hmmn, careful though, once you establish friend terms, a lot of the time it will never be able to become something else, because they can be afraid of ruining it.

I'm about the last person to recommend anything about girls, but one time there was a girl I liked who was dating someone else. She broke up with the boyfriend and being the nice guy I am, I gave her some space to deal with the loss. She was very upset about it. Well, several days later she started going out with someone else. I thought, "Wow. That was fast." I missed out because someone else caught her on the rebound. Our friendship deteriorated some time later, so in the long run it was no loss. I think catching someone "on the rebound" is unethical, but lots of people do it. If she can't be alone for long, you have a good shot at hooking up with her.