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24 Mar 2012, 9:16 pm

So im talking to my ex on facebook then her boyfriend starts saying very mean but soo unintelligent thnings to me.

To make things well kinda funny she was the one who added me on facebook then tells me to live her alone when.

She was the one who sent me a message and her boyfriend keeps running his mouth even more when all of this is.

My ex girlfriends fault in the first place man I for got how crazy she is.



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24 Mar 2012, 9:39 pm

You really need to avoid any contact with your ex at all.



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24 Mar 2012, 9:42 pm

Well, her and her new bf sound like a perfect match :lol:


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25 Mar 2012, 1:56 am

Yeah, this has happened to me as well. Only thing I can figure is that those types of people get off on bullying others. Best to just cut all contact with her.


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25 Mar 2012, 11:47 am

Best to block em both from FB. They're called Exes because it's best to X them out of your life


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25 Mar 2012, 12:03 pm

Thanks guys it was just weird really I mean out of the blue she started talking to me then her boyfriend was being a bag of dicks for no logical reason at all he has issues :lol:



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25 Mar 2012, 1:42 pm

it seems pretty obvious he is jealous. i don't see anything wrong with keeping in touch with exes, it really depends if you want too or feel it would be best. I think i'd find it hard to just cross someone out of my life



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25 Mar 2012, 1:44 pm

Tell her you suffer from extreme discomfort in the presence of crazy b*tches and need to cease all contact at once. Nothing personal, of course


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25 Mar 2012, 1:48 pm

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Tell her you suffer from extreme discomfort in the presence of crazy b*tches and need to cease all contact at once. Nothing personal, of course


:lol:

I was going to but she blocked me on facebook and that made me happy.



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25 Mar 2012, 3:00 pm

Joker wrote:
Vigilans wrote:
Tell her you suffer from extreme discomfort in the presence of crazy b*tches and need to cease all contact at once. Nothing personal, of course


:lol:

I was going to but she blocked me on facebook and that made me happy.


oh well, better luck next time :P


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25 Mar 2012, 3:05 pm

Joker wrote:
Thanks guys it was just weird really I mean out of the blue she started talking to me then her boyfriend was being a bag of dicks for no logical reason at all he has issues :lol:

That's just it, though. People with issues will try to make their issues your issues, and I suspect you have plenty of issues all your own. We all do, right? And there are all sort of games that get played. Maybe she's just talking to you to make her bf jealous or she just gets off on manipulating you both. This is a game you can't win, so it's best not to play.

I ended a long relationship once because she had turned mentally and verbally abusive towards me, and I reached a point when I realized that I was no longer prepared to handle all her drama. I think maybe she was a wannabe submissive or something. Whatever, and maybe I just didn't get it or wasn't into it. But every time I'd respond in kind she'd go all passive-aggressive on me and I'd end up crawling back apologizing for days until she "forgave" me. That worked well enough until I told I'd had enough. We tried being "friends" after that, which often crossed a certain line making it impossible to "just be friends" on any level. And then the abuse would start right back up. The situation steadily declined from there to the point she was following me around, embarrassing me when I was dating other women, and telling all my guy friends we were getting back together. I had to tell her to never call me again, never follow me anywhere, and if we happened to be in the same place to not even so much as look in my direction. ONLY when I completely cut her out of my life did things start to get back to normal.

Someone I'm very close to had a problem with a jealous ex-bf pulling the same kind of garbage. They broke up and quickly got back together mostly because he refused to keep any kind of distance, and it was just easier to get back together since he didn't really leave her any real options. It wasn't long after that, either, that she finally had to make those kinds of demands. When he absolutely refused to give her any space at all after the 2nd breakup, she ended up calling the police on him. If you have a couple of people like that jerking you around, they most certainly are NOT your friends and you have no real reason to keep in contact with them. It can cause you some serious grief and even mess up your life if you don't make that definitive break.

This girl is playing you AND her current bf. Her voice is the last voice you want to hear.



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25 Mar 2012, 4:36 pm

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Joker wrote:
Thanks guys it was just weird really I mean out of the blue she started talking to me then her boyfriend was being a bag of dicks for no logical reason at all he has issues :lol:

That's just it, though. People with issues will try to make their issues your issues, and I suspect you have plenty of issues all your own. We all do, right? And there are all sort of games that get played. Maybe she's just talking to you to make her bf jealous or she just gets off on manipulating you both. This is a game you can't win, so it's best not to play.

I ended a long relationship once because she had turned mentally and verbally abusive towards me, and I reached a point when I realized that I was no longer prepared to handle all her drama. I think maybe she was a wannabe submissive or something. Whatever, and maybe I just didn't get it or wasn't into it. But every time I'd respond in kind she'd go all passive-aggressive on me and I'd end up crawling back apologizing for days until she "forgave" me. That worked well enough until I told I'd had enough. We tried being "friends" after that, which often crossed a certain line making it impossible to "just be friends" on any level. And then the abuse would start right back up. The situation steadily declined from there to the point she was following me around, embarrassing me when I was dating other women, and telling all my guy friends we were getting back together. I had to tell her to never call me again, never follow me anywhere, and if we happened to be in the same place to not even so much as look in my direction. ONLY when I completely cut her out of my life did things start to get back to normal.

Someone I'm very close to had a problem with a jealous ex-bf pulling the same kind of garbage. They broke up and quickly got back together mostly because he refused to keep any kind of distance, and it was just easier to get back together since he didn't really leave her any real options. It wasn't long after that, either, that she finally had to make those kinds of demands. When he absolutely refused to give her any space at all after the 2nd breakup, she ended up calling the police on him. If you have a couple of people like that jerking you around, they most certainly are NOT your friends and you have no real reason to keep in contact with them. It can cause you some serious grief and even mess up your life if you don't make that definitive break.

This girl is playing you AND her current bf. Her voice is the last voice you want to hear.


Well to be honest the only reason she dated me was apart of some prank her and her freinds where playing on me so she could take my virginity but she didnt know I knew that was her plan so I turned the tables on her we had sex but I ddint call her the next day and she asked me at school what my problem was I told her hey you wanted my virginity you took it so why we still dating :lol: I have a lot of issues this is true but I dont throw them up in peoples faces like they where doing.



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25 Mar 2012, 5:41 pm

Cut contact with her then! That's what I did with a couple of mine and their bitchy friends...

One of my exes are cool though.


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25 Mar 2012, 7:08 pm

CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:
Cut contact with her then! That's what I did with a couple of mine and their bitchy friends...

One of my exes are cool though.


I know was going to keep using intelligence against her boyfriends annoying comments about me thats what made her block me on facebook and gosh Im glad and I got the last word to which made me very :D