Aspie girls where do you like to go on dates?

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I would like to no where the women on wrong planet like to go on dates at.

Somewhere not too noisy/crowded.

I hate crownds my paranoia cant handle them and I really hate lounds sounds and nosies I prefer to go to the park of something like that.

For me, the usual: dinner or a movie, or maybe even both. Depends on how you feel about those places.

A museum, a zoo, lunch, coffee or some other place where conversation is possible. No noisy bars please

Somewhere *interesting*, some place where I can contemplate and have good, quiet conversation with my date, and not have too many social expectations on me. I don't mean table manners (I can do that), I mean being expected to connect or be "on" right away and for a long time.

Hmmm... I don't like restaurants because it's hard to maintain conversation when eating. Plus, I find it to be unattractive. I get to watch the person eat, and that's about all.

Supposing I was to go on a date, I would probably say coffeehouse, especially if there was an outside patio if the inside was crowed.

The museum and zoo suggestions sound like good ideas because then you could say "Ohh, look at that cool exhibit" when you cannot think of what to say.

I do not like the idea of a movie on a date, as you watch the movie and do not get to know each other. You are not spending "quality time" with each other any more than you are with the 50+ other people in the theater.

i don't like to go on dates. official dates make me uncomfortable.

I find eating in restaurants to be somewhat stressful. I really like museums and such but I don't know if they would be good date material because I would be distracted by all the nifty things to look at and probably wouldn't interact with my date as much.

Leaving my house and going somewhere new is always a bit stressful, I do like to bake things though. Making food together is really fun. I once made gingerbread cookies with my boyfriend and then we positioned them and took pictures and made a narrative with the cookies.

Oh and having tea together afterward is always good. I love the smell of herbal tea and I have a really cute squirrel-themed tea set.

If I did go on a date outside, a nice walk in a park might be good. I might be able to see/feed squirrels that way too.

I tried couple dating once before but I had a anxiety attack being around another couple that I didnt know so well

Movies are good because then there is a quiet, interesting activity to engage in, and the sensory stuff is (hopefully) lowered. And then you can both talk about (or rip apart) the movie afterward.

Anything that engages my particular interests and has a low social overload quality is also good. Going for a walk in a quiet park, a TV show "date" with popcorn or something on the couch, going to the library together but browsing separately, going for a scenic drive with good music, followed by take out pizza on the couch.

Those have always appealed to me. Some will work for initial dates too.