Teredia wrote:
Theres this aspie guy i really like. I have been chasing him for about a year and a half. Though we're both 22, ive been acting like a love sick teenager around him, which just totally turns him off me all together. Lately though I have been trying to act grown up, mature and independent and not clingy n needy like i have been. He actually noticed.
He actually said to me smiling "you've changed" then laughs "it could actually just be the stockings" (i was wearing stockings and a skirt where i usually wear jeans).
He was smiling at me, and I was smiling back and mentioned i still had a mega crush on him. He didnt get up me like he usually does, or tried to discourage my feelings for him. He just smiled and went onto his next topic.
When I was about to leave I pointed out how we'd spent time together 2 days in a row, for the 1st time without trying to kill each other. He smiled and laughed and was surprised at this also.
Anyways I am going to keep going slow and steady and see if I can take our friendship to a higher level. No more acting like a love sick desperate teenager!! I hope he keeps noticing that I, in his words "behave and be good."
I am just really happy =) That i have been able to act all grown up and mature around a guy i like. Especially a guy who "gets" me!!
Congrats! Hopefully that'll be me someday.
12 Aug 2012, 7:47 am
Hope it works out. 
Just let it flow naturally.
