strange behavior this morning

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This morning at breakfast (college student, so we have a cafeteria), I talked to a girl who I've known casually for a while. I noticed that she was laughing/repressing laughs (I'm not sure which) as we talked. (The conversation followed the premise of: How was your spring break? What did you do? followed by a description of the history of axes). She laughed quite a bit at what seemed to be nothing which leaves two possibilities:

1) She is attracted to me

2) I was doing something she thought was funny

Does this happen often? I have a lot of difficulty with nonverbal communication (I have NLD), and wasn't paying much attention to her facial expressions/where she was looking/other body language.

I'm almost clueless when it comes to relationships, as is probably already apparent.

We NT women often laugh conspicuously and long when we are attracted to someone.

Why not try smiling at her the next time you see her, and see if she does so back. If she makes eye contact, quickly looks down, and then back up, it is a classic sign that she is attracted to you.

I always say that it's best to assume the positive. She probably thought you are quirky, fun, and hilarious. Who wouldn't love to be around you when you're like that? if she stuck around, I'd say she is at least feeling friendly.

Best of luck...

it could also be that she was in an especially good mood, and it had nothing to do with you. keep that in mind.

if you are interested in her, talk to her more make sure you smile a lot. flirt with her. say sexually suggestive things when the opportunity arises, but make sure shes comfortable with you first :X escalate with via touch (not inappropriate touch, obviously).