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2000namesl8r
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31 Mar 2012, 6:08 am

i believe i have gift of the gab, i wear my heart on my sleeve, im very honest, some might say too honest. is it too much to ask for an understanding partner?
there must be someone out there, after the same things in life.
i just want to live a happy relaxed life, and provide for my children as best i can.
i find talking to girls kinda easy, although i think i come accross slightly arrogant, i hope i dont, but why else dont i get anywhere? i wouldnt say i was hangin, im not the best lookin guy either but im happy(ish) hope 'the one' reads this and is intriuged enough to chase me.
why do guys seem to do all the running around... if we are ment to be equal then lets go all the way!

thanks for readin,


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31 Mar 2012, 10:59 am

There's someone for everyone. You sound like a nice guy. If you don't have a lot of money to spend, try a free Internet dating site. I used Plenty of Fish. That's how I met my boyfriend. Good luck! :D



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05 Apr 2012, 4:24 am

plenty of fish is free to ladies only... i use free dating and its pants tbh. im straight up and honest, i dont think women search, its like they just chat to the guys that are flying through profiles... cheers anyway.


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05 Apr 2012, 5:02 am

You might be coming across as slightly arrogant and that can be extremely unattractive and turn girls away, you don't have to act mean to attract women, just be yourself and try to be more affectionate and kind in the way you treat them or talk to them.

Like in this instant messaging conversation I had last night, don't try to convince them you are something you are not, just show them you are a fun guy and be yourself.

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ryanxuk: Aha<3 xxx we gon make slush puppies and sand castles on the beach woop =]
.khloe. : Omg, you're so cute<3 xxx
ryanxuk: Aha blushes! <3 xxx how am i =P?
.khloe. : Because, that just made me have a HUGE smile on my face c: <3 xxx
ryanxuk: Awww yay<3 xxx smiles ftw
ryanxuk: Aha <3 xxx and I r gonna teach you to SURF! woop woop :']
.khloe. : Awwww yas :')<3 xxx
ryanxuk: :'] <3 xxx I don't know why but for some reason, I just wanna snuggle you aha
.khloe. : Yaaaaaay! <3 xxx
ryanxuk: I mean like snuggle you and protect you from all the bad stuff in the world<3 xxx
ryanxuk: Cause you're too lovely to be hurt :]
ryanxuk: <3 xxx
.khloe. : You're making me cry, you're soooo lovely<3 xxx
ryanxuk: I'm not aha<3 xxx



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05 Apr 2012, 11:22 am

Plenty of Fish is free for anyone who is single, not just women.



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05 Apr 2012, 11:58 am

I likes readin'.



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05 Apr 2012, 12:45 pm

i think dating is sort of based around lying, its quite a difficult concept to grasp, right people don't look to go with someone else, they in some strange animal way want something from someone else, so arrogance can be good... well confidence, theres a fine line, between the two and if your anything like me you probably smash that line with a sledge hammer instead of sitting along it. if you don't love yourself nobody else will, so be yourself and embrace it!



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05 Apr 2012, 1:04 pm

Wolfheart wrote:
You might be coming across as slightly arrogant and that can be extremely unattractive and turn girls away, you don't have to act mean to attract women, just be yourself and try to be more affectionate and kind in the way you treat them or talk to them.

Like in this instant messaging conversation I had last night, don't try to convince them you are something you are not, just show them you are a fun guy and be yourself.

Quote:
ryanxuk: Aha<3 xxx we gon make slush puppies and sand castles on the beach woop =]
.khloe. : Omg, you're so cute<3 xxx
ryanxuk: Aha blushes! <3 xxx how am i =P?
.khloe. : Because, that just made me have a HUGE smile on my face c: <3 xxx
ryanxuk: Awww yay<3 xxx smiles ftw
ryanxuk: Aha <3 xxx and I r gonna teach you to SURF! woop woop :']
.khloe. : Awwww yas :')<3 xxx
ryanxuk: :'] <3 xxx I don't know why but for some reason, I just wanna snuggle you aha
.khloe. : Yaaaaaay! <3 xxx
ryanxuk: I mean like snuggle you and protect you from all the bad stuff in the world<3 xxx
ryanxuk: Cause you're too lovely to be hurt :]
ryanxuk: <3 xxx
.khloe. : You're making me cry, you're soooo lovely<3 xxx
ryanxuk: I'm not aha<3 xxx

isn't this a different girl from the one you recently confessed to be in love with?


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05 Apr 2012, 1:40 pm

People talk like that?



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05 Apr 2012, 1:41 pm

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
People talk like that?

apparently it works because i think he has posted chats from a few different girls (if i am not mistaken)


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05 Apr 2012, 1:43 pm

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
People talk like that?


haha that is what I thought


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05 Apr 2012, 1:46 pm

Hyperlexian I want to snuggle you and protect you from all the bad things in the world.



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05 Apr 2012, 1:54 pm

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
Hyperlexian I want to snuggle you and protect you from all the bad things in the world.

c'mere, sugar.


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05 Apr 2012, 2:05 pm

Oh my.



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05 Apr 2012, 4:59 pm

Snuggley wuggley.



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05 Apr 2012, 9:41 pm

Yes, people do talk mushy talk to each other. It's how they show affection.