Do you usually have same sex friends before you meet a lover

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Now that i think about it, its always a guy with a wingman that gets women to like them.

The woman doesnt HAVE to have a friend with her, but it does help.
Also, if i have no friends, then who am I going to go to places with?
And where the hell am i going to go?
Should i just work my way up?

You should try dating outside the bar scene.
I don't know where else such concepts as a "wingman" are en vogue.

You could go places by yourself?
You could have friends ~gasp~ of the opposite sex?
You could go wherever you want?

Women are not a conquest to be conquered
Just thinking that way sets you up for failure.
That isn't to say having a friend to help you break the ice isn't helpful but any strategy
that treats it like a win/lose game is a recipe for failure.

Just be genuine, don't try to emulate anyone else, and just talk to them.
Also - I concur with the previous poster - the bar scene isn't the place to find the one for you.

You'll meet people doing things you like to do (which of course requires you get out of the house);
worst case scenario join a singles activity group.