Should I have a NT or AS Girl for a partner.

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I have been Contemplating if I should have an NT girl or AS girl.

I figured an aspie girl would relate to me better than a NT and I wouldn't have to worry about so much emotionalism.

Plus from what I have researched,It seems like an AS girl is a little more daring and curious than a NT girl.

I would kinda like having someone around who would play MTG and Xbox with me plus a few bedroom games }:-)

I would suggest that you date which ever woman makes you more happy and that you like more regardless of her AS/NT status. I can think of some people with AS who are total nightmares and I can also think of some NTs who are great people.

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Diagnosed under the DSM5 rules with autism spectrum disorder, under DSM4 psychologist said would have been AS (299.80) but I suspect that I am somewhere between 299.80 and 299.00 (Autism) under DSM4.

I find it irritating when people get all emotional over nothing.

I would have difficulties with that. At least with an AS girl I don't have to worry about her crying over a broken plate or glass.

I sort of brought this up in a poll and yeah, the conclusion was if they accept and support you as you are, and are content with your contributions to the relationship, nt or as doesn't matter. I don't really know any AS women that I know of, but I had the impression they were less emotionally difficult then NT women. After my poll, I thought differently.

I figured an AS girl would kind of understand me better than a NT would because she would know when I'm serious or not.
Normally with NT's I react with have a hard time reading me and they get confused about my intentions.

Plus I would adore having someone I can be blunt with as well as someone who can return that honesty and not be offended. (From what I know, Aspies are terrible liars)

Date which one you prefer the most.

I agree with Joker. I'm an NT female and I LOVE video games...and bedroom games!! So don't put too much emphasis on whether or not she's NT or AS, there's so much more to people than labels.

It seems everyone has a label now its sad

I just need a girl who can match my psychoness.
Someone who can stay one step ahead while stay one step ahead of her.

I'm not talking labels at all. Stay focused here!

List out some of the pros and cons for me here, People.

What I'm trying to say is not to concentrate on finding an AS or NT partner. Just concentrate on finding a partner, someone that "gets" you. You'd be surprised to find out that an AS/NT relationship can work out just fine. I'm sure there are pros and cons to AS/NT and AS/AS relationships. Relationships are work no matter AS or NT. I'm NT and I love my Aspie!! ! I "get" him but that's because I've worked at it. I've learned about AS and about him. Maybe some of the Aspie's out here can tell you their experiences with an AS or NT partner?? I think you should experience a relationship, AS or NT and then decide what you're most comfortable with.

I really think you should look for a potential partner, and then weed them out. I never got why people would 'want a partner', without being specific about who they want.

The weed them out strategy is effective.Strategy!

Guerilla warfare tactic initiated!