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I have a friend(girl), that is kinda free speecher(dont know how to say, that she talk with me about everything mostly sex, without any problem), so what is happening, is that we usually fool around, i play along with her, we talk about positions in bed, she talks with me about girls that she knows that want to know me, but she just say to me, that is a waste meeting this girls, and never present us or when i talk to her about girls that are acttracted to me she just say they are ugly or things like that, the thing is she got a boyfriend, and has been with him for 6 months, i keep fooling around with her, because she is the one that start that, and even when his boyfriend is present, she do it.

The past week we were talking about a position in bed, that she didnt know, she said to me, that she wanted to see how it was, then i said that i will show how with my hands, but she said,, that she didnt understand that way, that i could carry her and show how, that there was no problem, but his boyfriend was some meters aways seeing at us, and i didnt do it, then when we were walking right to his boyfriend, she whispered me "You cant deal with me"(as a meaning that if we were going to have sex, i couldnt satisfy her), Then i said to her joking, something like, dont know how to make a good translation, and apologize if is kinda rude, is just she use that type of language and i follow her with that, something like "I would break you into two pieces", then we got to his boyfriend and sat with him, she againg whispered to me "What would you do me into bed", and his boyfriend was there, i didnt know what to do, he could even hear us, so i just stayed quiet.

The "Big" comes now, yesterday when we were at the cafeteria(dinning room in college) we were sitting at a table, that has 4 chairs, his boyfriend was sit in front of another friend and beside her,i was in front of her, then under the table with his foots, she started to touch my thighs, until reaching my penis obviosly over the clothes, and she was practically masturbating me, while she was hugging his boyfriend, she did this for like 2 hours, then i left.

Something i can add, is i had touched her ass without she saying anything to me, and she touch my body too much, whisper to me too much, and look me directly into my eyes all the time we are talking.

So i dont know whats going on here, i was feeling weird while she was doing that, i liked, but at the same time it was a weird feeling if hes boyfriend noticed out, dont know what to do, i havent see her, talked to her, and in monday we have classes, how i suposse to act in front of the boyfriend of her, is she just messing around with me?, do she want something with me?

I may have to add that she is the reason of why girls thinks im kinda actractive now, like 8 months a go, i was practically a hermit
long hair, weird clothes,she asked me for explanation for a calculus class, and we started talking, she convinced me into cutting my hair, using different types of clothes, but what is weird, if she liked me, why she got that boyfriend instead of me?
The history about that boyfriend was, because she started to bothering me with a girl that was really dumb,rude(dont saying this as and insult, just like she did things like joking about sick people,racism, so this is dumb for me),she said that i like her and things like this, so i started bothering her the same way with a dude that it was a douchebag, and this is the one that turned out to be his boyfriend right now.

Apologize my bad english.

If something in your gut tells you this doesn't feel right, listen to it. Those people may very well be libertines but from what I see, I would have serious trust issues about the entire situation. When I was younger I had an uncle who was molested by a neighbor and developed abnormal attitudes about sex, when I became a bit older he incited one of his girlfriends to initiate making out with me while he watched. It left me confused and fearful on some levels that I never understood until recently. This friend of yours may have been traumatized in her life and is possibly confused herself. Maintain a sense of boundaries in your interactions; for all we know there may be some diabolical agendum behind their behavior

Avoid this one, she sounds like trouble. Sounds like she is tagging you along or leading you down the garden path

Cut off your friendship if you can call it that. She is trouble.