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SpaceCase
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12 Dec 2006, 9:54 pm

I do.

I have fallen in love with someone who was totally rude,immature,and cruel.She loved me back,but she has severe borderline personality disorder and she's pregnant now.

I've also been interested in someone who USED to hate me...but doesn't really care for me now.




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12 Dec 2006, 10:17 pm

humans are very strange - my uncle is a nurse and he's heard tones of stories of people with depression and that, that came in for the same reason's and the talks he was telling me I am still amazed but I see it in my home life with my brother and also my mother relationships yet they stay and say they love them and that,

probably why most people tend to say honest, kind and nice people are boring and that, guess as human’s want a little fight “argument that is” or lie to each other yet hate it, just a funny old world – lot of other stories but would go on for a book size but a lot is down to just the way human’s are… I myself end up making people run as I am sensitive and want to sit down and talk about it or listen – but end up making people run guess it’s coz I don’t “ argue “ and the assertiveness stuff that I have skill’s in. just a funny world in general.

Also hate and love are really border line linked – some people may look like they hate but really love you just a defence a human has…



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13 Dec 2006, 12:05 am

SpaceCase wrote:
I do.

I have fallen in love with someone who was totally rude,immature,and cruel.She loved me back,but she has severe borderline personality disorder and she's pregnant now.

I've also been interested in someone who USED to hate me...but doesn't really care for me now.




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Have you ever thought about spending a year or so without some kind of romantic involvement? I think this would be good for you. Really, I'm not trying to flame. You just sound really vulnerable, confused, and in search of an identity.



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13 Dec 2006, 2:36 am

Aye.

what 33 just said.



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13 Dec 2006, 2:51 am

uh question. the girl who is pregant....was that by you or someone else?



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13 Dec 2006, 3:43 am

Gamester wrote:
uh question. the girl who is pregant....was that by you or someone else?


SC is a female. :lol:


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13 Dec 2006, 6:56 am

Sounds like maybe you seek out abusers or "bad girls." I think you should do some careful self-examination/introspection to try to understand why that is. Someone once gave me a concept to think about... "selection process."


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13 Dec 2006, 8:05 am

Not really. No I don't...Yet.



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13 Dec 2006, 9:52 am

Mysterious? Definitely.

Possibly Impossible.


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13 Dec 2006, 12:05 pm

Gamester wrote:
uh question. the girl who is pregant....was that by you or someone else?


I am a FEMALE. She was raped by a 36-year-old dude.


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