What type of relationship do you want from him or her, NT/AS

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They type of relationship I'm looking is someone NT that can learn to accept my disability and is caring. What do you guys perfer AS or NT.

Sezzy

I take things on a case by case, know it when I see it basis. I have my specifications (mostly to do with attitudes) but I try to keep them as minimal as possible. I've learned to keep my expectations to just what I really need, and no more.

Are people with mental health issues who aren't aspies, NT? If so, NT is not a barrier. I've never been with anyone who's really well-adjusted. I tend to relate to people through common experience; I'd find it really hard to relate to someone who didn't struggle in life (relatively speaking, that is). But I guess I'd be willing to consider it, if the chemistry was there and my basic specifications were met.

I really wana date a girl with AS I have dated at least seven NTs when all I want is a Aspie Girl.

I've dated one guy with the possibilty of apsergers so far. I date geeky/ nerdy guys so there's a possiblity I might bump into a guy with aspergers again. It would be interesting to date an extroverted guy, but I prefer an introverted guy

It doesn't matter, it's best not to put them in labels because it doesn't define compatibility or personality, I don't think you should narrow it down or be too selective.

I have read posts from people on here claiming to be disorganized, I'm a very organized and neat person, I like discipline and routine so not every person on the spectrum is the same.

I want the type of relationship that works.

I don't know any attractive aspie chicks. The one I know, is friendly, but I don't consider her dating material.