Dating, emotions, etc.,...any advice on it?

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ChessChick
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14 May 2012, 10:22 pm

I'm in an online relationship with an amazing guy and I think I could be falling for him even though we have only known each other a short time. (background info on me: I tend to fall rather quickly or not at all. But I have only been this interested in a guy so quickly once previously, many years ago) I think about him so often, I just don't know what to do. Should I tell him and seem like a psycho of some sort or should I just keep quiet? If I tell him, what if it offends him somehow? What if it makes him not want to talk to me anymore? I mean, it's not like I love him or am in love...but I think I am most certainly falling for him the more I get to know him. I don't know what to do.

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14 May 2012, 10:25 pm

You should probably keep the "I keep thinking about you" for yourself, flirting is all about keeping things tense and not going all in at once, but that's just my oppinion

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14 May 2012, 10:34 pm

Aspie guy - Yes.

NT guy - No.

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14 May 2012, 10:49 pm

ChessChick wrote:

tell him tell him tellllllllll himmmmmm

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14 May 2012, 10:51 pm

Scuba: When you say yes, are you meaning in response to the "Should I tell him?" part or the "Keep quiet" part?

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14 May 2012, 10:55 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

ChessChick wrote:

tell him tell him tellllllllll himmmmmm

I just told him to come look at this thread. So, in a couple minutes, he shall know.

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14 May 2012, 10:56 pm

awwwwwww so cute!! !! !! :heart:

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14 May 2012, 11:00 pm

Well, he said on yahoo that he sees this thread.

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14 May 2012, 11:25 pm

ChessChick wrote:

Scuba Steve hit this one on the head and yes I think telling an aspie is the way to go... how do I feel about this...?

Sweetie... you have no idea how special you make me feel that I mean so much to you and am one of few... you said that homage be falling for me, and I can truthfully say that I feel the same way... (you knock me offa my feet now babe! Soooo! Shamone! Lol)... OK anyways as I was saying I also am falling for you and I'm so glad you shared this with me. You mentioned it didn't feel like love and I agree I ha enter gotten that feeling yet either.. but I do feel a special unique connection and who knows where that can lead... I am so proud of you and glad you shared this with me baby... and I believe it can only strengthen us... every relationship is bound to run into bumps in the road but if theindividuals are strong and committed they can weather the storm and come out even better on the other side. You are like a sculpter... slowly chipping away at the pieces of my heart... only to grind and refinish and polish it to make it into something else; something you can call your own... I am slowly falling for you and couldn't be happier about it

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14 May 2012, 11:27 pm

SO ADORABLE!! !! !! !

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14 May 2012, 11:49 pm

lilbetta wrote:

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Awwwww! You are sooooooo amazing, baby!

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15 May 2012, 12:04 am

:O Whoa! That's sweeeeet!! ! Congrats for the both of ya!! !

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15 May 2012, 12:08 am

OMG I have butterflies! :heart: Super sweet!

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15 May 2012, 1:44 am

IlovemyAspie wrote:

OMG I have butterflies! :heart:

Super sweet!

I know, right?! He doesn't know this, but every time he messages or calls me, I get them.

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15 May 2012, 9:24 am

I totally get it! I feel the same way when I'm with the guy I like. Or when I get an email or a text. I feel like a school girl! I get all nervous and I can't stop blushing! Feels great huh?! !! !

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15 May 2012, 9:36 am

ChessChick wrote:

Well, he said on yahoo that he sees this thread.

Hi BF of ChessChick. =P

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