How should i deal with this?

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i am feeling VERY depressed and sad at the moment. you see 10 years ago when i was 12 years old there was this girl i knew at school and we got a long really. i really liked her a lot (she was the grandaughter of my childminder)


its just that since its been 10 year snow since i last spoke too her (she left school at aged 14 in 2002 because she got pregnant) the old memories are making me feel very sad


how can i deal with this because looking back the memories are very painful. i last saw her in my local town 8 years ago in 2004 but i did not speak too her. do you think maybe i should just accept that it was a very long time ago and neither of us are the same as we were back then.

I do this all the time. What makes me feel better is accept that they've moved on. Keep your admiration of them in your heart; that might make you feel better too. Or not, if you have a different way of processing letting go.

this girl i used too is probably looking after her chilidren now and is married with a husband so she is probably a far cry from the girl she was in 2002.

well my family fell out with my childminder (the girls grandmother) so yeah kinda. my childminder stopped looking after me and my brother in late 2002.

Maybe you can talk to her only. See if you can find her number and see what happens.