It's been five years....

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Since I had a relationship that lasts longer than a year. Although I had a few dates and a extremely clingy girlfriend since that time, I like to actually have a girlfriend that's in my level because I'm sick of dating people that are "different". It's been my dream to be with a woman that's actually like me since I was a child.

Not EXACTLY like me, but a woman who has the majority of the same interests I have. There are someone like that out there after all.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zq3EZhT3G7U

And, 3 years for me OP. Make yourself visible, and talk to people when you're able to. When you have a larger network of friends or acquaintances it's easier to meet girls. But then, you probably already know that!

0 years for me, never been in a relationship.

It's been 7 months. I'm not clicking with anyone.

I'm sorry, everyone! ((hugs)) Hang in there. It might happen when you least expect it!

what makes you think I want it to happen?

If you are not, never have been, and do not want to be in a relationship, then why are you in the love and dating section? Obviously you have every right to be here, but it is not unreasonable to assume that people in this section find romantic relationships desirable.

For the first time in my life I don't really care.

Here's my type of woman that I want to be with:

Exotic, brunette/brown eye type (Asian, Hispanic, white, mixed race)
21-35 years of age
5'0-5'7
Intelligent/high school level (some college at the highest)
Highly into sports, video games, and movies
Sensitive, but strong
Neurotypical and/or has mild autism like I do
Loves me for me (instead of materials/possessions)

She doesn't have to be perfect. It's just a suggestion.

For years, I have been struggling to talk to women beyond my peers. Because I would creepy reactions or I would have one-sided conversations with them thinking they would listen. I have been stuck in relationships with women I'm not really attracted to sexually. What I'm trying to say to all the women that are either disabled or neurotypical (normal) is that I want to at least to get to know you without feeling like a creep for trying. Just because I have autism, doesn't mean that I don't have certain standards. I just want to one day be in a relationship with someone who actually has the same intellegence and personality like I have, but with their own personal interests as well. I'm a changed person now and I just want to be in a relationship I could actually be proud of for once in my life.