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19:47:45 Boo
So how's your love life.
19:47:58 her
not bad
19:48:13 her
i have a great man who loves me
19:48:20 her
but i'm not satisfied
19:48:31 Boo
in what way?
19:48:38 her
or maybe i'm taking him for granted i don't know
19:48:51 her
well financially he's poor
19:48:59 her
A lower middle class
19:49:11 her
and i kinda have my expectations
19:49:19 her
which are not high
19:49:27 her
just living a decent life
19:49:35 her
and not having to worry abt money
19:50:20 Boo
so he's poorer than your expectations?
19:51:35 her
yea
19:52:24 Boo
and you're richer than him?
19:52:32 her
right now no
19:53:34 her
but i don't wanna be that working class that barely makes enough money each month
19:53:58 Boo
how much is his salary?
19:54:13 her
well 800 $
19:54:18 her
so is mine
19:54:27 Boo
how old is he?
19:54:30 her
but after i get my masters it'll rise
19:54:32 her
31
19:54:46 Boo
what's his field?
19:55:04 her
He’s a member of General security
19:55:42 Boo
those have additional benefits, you know?
19:55:51 her
the gd thing is they cover medical
19:55:54 her
and school
19:55:56 her
yeah
19:56:13 her
and he gets an early retirement
19:56:25 her
and still gets a salary
19:56:30 Boo
and still not satisfied?
19:56:38 her
hehehe
19:56:55 her
I dunno
19:57:11 Boo
their income increase dramatically when they get promoted, you know
19:57:11 Boo
in rank
19:58:00 her
not dramatically
19:58:06 Boo
and he works till 2:00, so he can work a second part-time job, no?
19:58:08 her
he's a sergeant
19:58:41 her
He can apply to be a warrant officer in 5 years
19:59:39 Boo
do they cover some housing?
19:59:57 her
no
20:00:14 her
bass they can take a loan with low interest
20:00:54 her
he has a house already
20:01:11 Boo
his salary is like 2000$, her
20:01:18 Boo
Regarding all these benefits
20:01:26 her
yeah
20:01:46 Boo
kids can be in best schools
20:01:58 Boo
and unis partially
20:02:15 her
they cover 60 to 75% of tuition
20:02:20 her
in school
20:02:30 Boo
lol
20:02:35 her
so not the very best or else it'll still be a pb
20:02:40 her
i dunno abt uni
20:02:45 her
i don't think so
20:03:14 her
we put it all on our kids
20:03:21 her
And we do nothing else
20:03:23 her
No travel
20:03:26 her
No outings
20:03:44 Boo
do him a favor
20:03:48 Boo
and leave hin
20:03:52 Boo
him*
20:04:05 her
why?
20:04:06 Boo
and go for a richer guy
20:04:24 Boo
because it will never work, i am telling you
20:04:54 Boo
to you, he'll be always a lacking man
20:05:53 Boo
this is my honest opinion
20:06:23 her
well i wouldn't worry but what if my salary and his stay the same
20:06:25 her
?
20:06:41 her
then what if i want to change jobs
20:06:41 Boo
and be sure to be direct with the next guy
20:06:49 her
or get a part time job for the kids
20:06:54 her
What happens then?
20:06:54 Boo
tell him he should be of a specific class
20:07:38 Boo
or investigate abt him before getting involved
20:07:54 her
i always do that
20:08:02 her
but this time he pursued me
20:08:25 her
until i found myself in a relationship with him
20:08:28 Boo
you can say no
20:08:36 her
and i can't put an end to it
20:08:44 her
i do love him
20:08:46 her
i think
20:08:49 her
i don't know
20:08:56 her
how can i be so confused?
20:09:14 her
i'm spending most of my time with him
20:09:16 Boo
you don't really love him
20:10:13 Boo
GOOD that i stopped pursuing you long time ago LOL
20:11:19 Boo
k i gtg
20:11:22 Boo
bye


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her (8:15 PM):
interesting! well it's just common sense and u've got to understand that. i'm not asking to be rich but to give my children the life i had. not deprived of anything and always have the best quality of everything i can give them.
her (8:17 PM):
and yes excuse me if i don't want to be one of the people who worry abt the end of the month because they don't have any money left
before my father passed away we didn't have to worry abt that
her (8:18 PM):
and i got to be educated in the best places and i want that to my children
her (8:24 PM):
u're probly in the same s**t but 7abibe this is lebanon and u can't even get a house for less than 150 000$ how are u gonna manage that?
her (8:25 PM):
even with low interest
u're one of these guys who don't have a clue abt the expenses of a family
her (8:26 PM):
but i do because i'm involved
her (8:27 PM):
i hate judgemental guys like u



Boo(11:57 PM):
i am not being judgmental, but i can bet that you will never ever be satisfied with this guy, so i am just telling how to do him a favor and to stop wasting his time.
Boo(11:58 PM):
and i know plenty of couples with similar salaries yet they could manage it. Lol, in fact most of them are in this range of salaries.
Boo(11:59 PM):
but if you want an easy marriage with full of travel and comfort and withot any sacrifice then i suggest you to go for a high-class or rich guy,
Boo(12:00 AM):
I am not being judgemental but that's the only type of guy that you would be satisfied with.
Boo(12:01 AM):
The truth hurts.
Boo(12:08 AM):
so my advice to you, stop dating middle-class guys, stop wasting their time and then breaking their hearts and go date a surgeon or a senior chief engineer instead.
Boo(12:28 AM): and you wanted a very financially secured life? you should had to go for a higher paid profession yourself, and not going after nursing.
Boo(12:30 AM): I gtg, bye!

Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 23 May 2012, 3:00 am, edited 2 times in total.

She seems like a gold digger. The only difference between that and a prostitute is that the latter isn't monogamous.

Who said love doesn't come at a cost?
Well, old Habib here will definitely be able to manage (and how!) his $800 a month salary very soon

Neither are most of the gold diggers I've known.

I can get where she's coming from, she was brought up a certain waym with certain commodities, and she's not willing to lose them. Still, if she wants them she should get them herself instead of expecting them from a husband so... shame on her~

She seems to have some issues with money.

I think you stated that happened quite frequently over there

You technically correct, Boo.However, I smell the sweet sweet smell of bacon emanating from your presence. I'm not sure how to vote.

The first option is very tempting, I admit.

This, and even if she's incapable to get them herself .....then why she's staying with him? she has been with him like more than 6 months and it's being very serious.

Well done Boo, you told it like it is.

In my view, it's just not cricket for a person to discuss their doubts about their sexual partner with a potential sexual rival. And your suggestion was correct - if a person is in Rome but wishes they were in Paris, they don't usually whinge about it, they get on a train.

Good to see you didn't pull your punches to preserve the chances of an easy lay.

Interesting how rude she was at the end of the messaging session - ignored you, perhaps to punish you for not being sycophantic? Some of them do that.

A sexual rival? lol, maybe i was but now i am his ally (not sexual ally - no homo).



no, they were sent while she was offline, and the speech before it was sent after i went offline too.

There's another difference. A prostitute is honest about her intentions. It's a normal commercial contract. The person in these logs is clearly being dishonest.
Anyway, considering those logs, if that's her reasoning - doesn't know if she 'loves him' after discussing his salary - she deserves much worse, not better.

Just rough, tough, heterosexual, masculine camaraderie, yes. If only all men were that wholesome, women would have no choice but to all be wholesome too.


Ah yes.....I wasn't looking at the times properly, was confusing seconds for minutes.
I suppose your saying "good that I stopped chasing you long ago" kind of needlessly rubbed it in, but her behaviour makes me mad.

I don't think she deserves better or worse, just that she doesn't deserve to be with this man.

I wonder why those 3 don't show up here...

Come on, I don't bite! ;p