so.. what if I dont wanna commit

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Ok so I haven't been back here for a while but hoping some guys can maybe give me some advise.
This guy was a d*uche to me lately and i thought we were going to date but anyhow.
Now there's a nother guy I just met that I kind of like and think he's cute. But, I'm kinda sick of the whole "relationship" thing now. I just want to go out with him and tbh want to have sex with him cause its been too long for me lol! I dont like ONS (ew) and I don't just want FWB w/ him either but I just don't want to be a "couple" really either you know?
I think he'd date me but what if he wants to get serious and stuff. if we go out should I like tell him right away that I don't want to commit and I still wanna maybe see other guys, ect, or would that just weird him out lol? Or, is it going to be more freaky to go out with him a bunch and then tell him? what if we kiss or have sex and he doesn't get that it's not serious, then is he gonna be mad at me and say I'm being a tease?
Also I work with him so if I end up with him hating me that can really go bad!
I just want to hook up with this guy but I'm kinda dumb at this stuff so, anybody help me out??
~Jen

I'd just tell him from the beginning. If he's not okay with it now, he won't be okay if he suddenly discovers it later.

Don't dip your pen in the company ink.

Aside from that you should look into polyamory.