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in detail to help those that are looking for a relationship.

The most important factors in any relationship.

Mutual understanding and mutual respect and compatibility in terms of living together, sexual and emotional needs.

I think in terms of living together, it's also important both people do an equal share to maintain the property and have similar views on neatness and house pride.

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Agreed I also need a stack of mental stimulation too, they don't have to be a genius but someone who knows a little about a lot keeps things interesting and really does something for me.
Nothing worse then being bored out of your mind by someone elses.

I must admit that, as I'm getting older, my sex drive is almost non-existent. So, in essence, I'd like to meet someone who is interested in intellectual pursuits, museums, concerts, restaurants & movies. You know...that sort of thing.

After being married 17 years I have learned you need to narrow down our expectations. Like having a list of very indespensable requirements, because "mr/mrs perfect" does not exist. You need to be more flexible and adjust. Something that really turns me on is intelligence. But besides intelligent the person needs to be caring, funny, have similar tastes/interests. Thats what I found in my husband.

Intelligence is numero uno
Then partnership. Not just be aside me, but also hold me if I bend down.
And lastly sexual compatibility. Means to f**k or not to f**k - nothing between that
Not to much, is it?

-Someone deeply immersed in a rich fantasy life. Creative and conversationally interesting.
-Preferably inexperienced with relationships, or at the very least having the kind of open-ended curiosity about dating and sex of someone who is.
-Someone I can grow with, but who also is OK with the possibility we may eventually grow apart as we mature. Basically, who is emotionally youthful enough that she's still "getting her bearings", and for whom finding a long-term partner isn't yet on her radar screen.
-Similar to me but not too similar.

Well, I'm bi, but to avoid the annoying he/she sentences, I'll write about a man right now.

So... he would definately have to be a very calm, "soft" person. Not soft as not masculine, but as I can't stand loud noises/people, he shouldn't be too active or too much of a party guy.

He'd also have to see me as his complete equal. I'm not a feminist, but I don't want to be an accessoire either.

Hmm.. It would be nice if he liked music and books like me.

As for looks, I like dark, short hair and grey eyes- dunno why. Also I'm usually attracted to people who are at least 10 years older than me...

For me ideally......

She normally is straight forward, a good communicator, e.g.linguist actress

I have to like her voice, generally not a hyper feminine voice and/or way of talking

I've unknowingly fallen for many Irish descendants, not a requirement just a odd pattern I noticed

Big blue eyes or small brown eyes

Fair complexion but not super blonde

Freckles

Generally focus on the bum, waist and legs area more than the boobs


Enough specifications for you ?

- Over 18
- Under 50
- Not a member of my family
- Not severely physically deformed
- Female
- Human

Those are my demands. My expectations, though are zero.

Age is a funny thing, I've given up working out if she's the right age for me. I look and act a lot younger than my actual age which is the main reason. I also most of friends are younger so I generally younger girls.

What am I looking for? A nice personality and a good set of genetics.

No love for sexy aliens?

I want to date a girl that is into me as much as I am into her.

No. For some reason, their preferred bedroom activity is inserting probes into all my orifices.
That, and they don't know the concept of private space or time to sleep.