"I know you want, stop beating around the bush."

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And that's exactly what my girlfriend's status said on Facebook two nights ago. I know that it's aimed at me, I'm just not sure what to do yet. We've been dating for almost 3 months now, so you can't really blame me for starting to think about kissing now. Yep, that's what she meant in her status. She knows that's what I'm thinking since it's become so easy for her to read my emotions since I confessed to her back in November. The issue is that I have never kissed anyone before, even though I've dated many people before her. And that was because I was either the 'men's trophy' in the relationship, one person was either too passive to me, or they were too obsessed with me. But for once I have actually made it into a balanced relationship and this is what I now have to put my mind into. Normally I would just continue thinking, but tonight America has decided to set the mood for me with fireworks. Thank you, -insert girlfriend's name here-, thank you for only giving me two days to think, and now I'm panicing while you're at work.

What I wonder is if the 4th of July was even on her mind when she posted that? I mean I kind of understand her in a way... She's dated people before too, and has kissed them before, so I guess that's probably why she wants me to decide now. Again, I'm just not sure of what I should do. Is it because she knows that I don't tackle things head-on? When does she want it? Tonight? Is that why she posted that two days before? Does she want it on the cheek or the lips? Can she wait? Even if she's going to college at the end of August? She'll only be 20 minutes away and outwardly said that she intends to visit me mor due to living closer. What's really making me panic now is that she'll be home in about 2 hours, so I need advice quickly, since I don't think it'd be a good idea to show that I'm this stressed out about it.

Just say you want to meet her up.
When you do see her just kiss her when there is a silence.
See how that goes.

This is the sort of stuff you don't talk about, you just do it.
If she pulls away, though, then I would just leave it be and maybe discuss kissing at that stage.