ozman wrote:
My wife and I are currently seperated. There is no relationship at present. That being said I have told her that I hope to reconcile in time as I work on how my aspergers relates to her.. She can't promise anything but has not ruled anything out either.
That has been said a few times,
I am not psychic but had a dream that she was Internet dating. I know this is just a dream but if she was should she tell me. I think yes and would be furious if she did not!
I would hate to think that one of my friends saw my wife on a dating site and I didn't know.
I do not know about the social rules, but I heard when my parents seperated that they had to pysically live seperate for a year before they could actually divorse from eachother legally.
When it comes to social rules, if she said she can't promise anything, I would read that as everything goes, but I could very well be wrong.
I really don't know, it's like that "we were on a break"-arguement Ross and Rachael from "Friends" had, only way to know for sure is to ask her what she feels the rules of your seperation are. Are you free to date other people? Are you free to update your facebook status to single? Are you obligated to tell eachother if you do any of these things?
I hope things work out for the best, good luck.
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AQ: 42/50 || SQ: 32/80 || IQ(RPM): 138 || IRI-empathytest(PT/EC/FS/PD): 10(-7)/16(-3)/19(+3)/19(+10) || Alexithymia: 148/185 || Aspie-quiz: AS 133/200, NT 56/200