I am beginning to think that no one will ever TRULY love me.

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What the title says...


I know that I've posted that people have liked me before...well it was either: they LUSTED for me and didn't LOVE me,they were kidding,they were just desperate,they found someone that they liked better,etc.


This makes me very depressed.


-SpaceCase

Hey, it's still a lot more than what I'm getting.

dont worry, you will be loved. REALLY loved.

You are still young. You have a lot of time left. People who are teenagers are really too immature to maintain relationships or have deep, meaningful relationships. (not all, but in general)

It might not happen til you're 30+

I didn't meet my soulmate until I was 30 ! !! Don't get discouraged, keep looking, and if need be, imitate the NT's a little. (You know, dress girly, act girly, pretend not to know anything about string theory, and all that.)

I am among the unlovable as well.

Tim

Not to sound insensitive, but it could be worse. Better to have been through bad relationships and learned from them to have never been in a relationship and still be totally confused about where to start.

What I mean is...you're on the right track. You're not behind or anything. Stuff like that takes time for anyone, aspie or NT...and really, it takes time for someone to start to really love you. Someone who at first only "likes" you can eventually love you.

yeah.

trust me.

I bet there is some great guy out there for you somewhere, and one day you'll find him, and then you'll find that all that worrying years ago, was for naught.

I though that way for a long time too. Went through several bad unhealthy relationships and was totally convinced I would be single and alone forever. Then at 27 I met the love of my life and we've been together ever since. I really believe you'll find your soulmate, although it may take a while like it did for me. Be patient, keep dating, keep your standards high and don't settle. Your time will come.

I didn't meet my cellmate until I was 17 ! !! Don't get discouraged, keep looking, and if need be break the law sooner.

I have been in nothing but bad relatiosnhips.... or just plain friendships that go nowhere. And to be truly honest... I am getting tired of it.

However... I do not like getting pressured in a relationship... makes me feel extremely cautious... because I got burned a few times when I was desperate....

The one thing I really hate is someone who get's your hopes up, then dahses them after you think you may have something... only to find out it's all a hologram.

Not sure if I am ever going to find someone... maybe that's why a large part of me is just giving up on even trying to find someone.

I believe that my soulmate is out there. somehwere.

When it's my time, God'll let me know.

I sometimes get that feeling, everyone i've ever really wanted has been extremely insincere.. hopefully that may change in the future.

SpaceCase, if I didn't know any better, I could have swore you're me, as the EXACT same thing has happened to me. Either women wanted me for sex or just friends. No love whatsoever. It used to depress me, as I thought there was something wrong with me, but now, I know it's not me, or at least, not completely me and my fault. They wanted me for all the wrong reasons, and that's their loss, that they didn't get or take the chance to get to know me better. In the end, I remind myself that they're hurting themselves for their behavior and opinion of me.

I'm not gonna say that there's someone out there for me because I don't know that yet. However, I've learned to live with myself, like me for me and who I am, and f**k whoever isn't appreciative of me. Those who truly like/love you for you and mean it are the ones who truly matter.

We are aware the aspie statistics of finding someone special and marrying.?

To find love you might have to make enough sacrifices, grooming, dress, appearing happy & confident and generally doing your homework.