Hand flapping slapped date in face, wat do?

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Basically what it says above, involuntary handflapping slapped date in face, currently in the bathroom on my toshiba handibook, she seems p/o'd, wat do?

Try to explain what happened, be honest with her and apologize. Hopefully, she will accept that. If not, take it as a learning experience. In the future, it would probably be better to explain and apologize right away, and not leave the room. Anyway, don't fret. We all make mistakes. It's how we learn.

What specifically should I say though? I am awkward as a mofo. Don't worry I have time, I drove her here, she cant leave.

I don't understand the whole situation. How long have you two been dating? Does she know about your AS? How badly was she hurt?

Tell her "I'm Rick James b***h!"

Maybe try telling her about Aspergers and stimming, if you haven't already? I'm not sure. I suppose it depends on how well you know her. Most importantly though, I think you just need to go talk to her, and apologize to her. And if she wants to go home then give her a ride home. Keeping her waiting will only make it worse.

I've been in the friendzone for awhile but she finally gave me a shot, this is our first date. She knows I have AS but she doesn't know that when I get nervous I can't control my hands. everything was going fine until I tried to erotically fork some fondue into her mouth and it turned into kind of a loony toons machinegun slap.

I thought someone here might have had a similar situation and could help me patch things up.

I can't stay in here much longer! Someone text me a line!

Ok I will try that. I'll post later how it went.

I can relate. See the thread Kinme posted about me unintentionally abusing her. That's what happens when I try to be smooth. lol

Anyway, I'd just go apologize and explain that you can't control your hands sometimes and it was an accident. Hopefully she will accept that.

Ok that didn't work! I'm back in the bathroom. Comon guys, I really can't blow this one, she's going to start getting suspicious if I have to duck in here again.

I whiteknuckling my handibook. think I might be having a panic attack!

i elbowed my ex fiance in the face on our first date. I apologized profusely and offered to buy him dinner next time we went out. He accepted and the next date we laughed about it profusely.

Apologies are best.

Relax, just tell her how nervous you are, and tell her that you are nervous because she is so beautiful, smart, fun, or any other qualities you admire in her. Apologize, and try to lighten the mood a little to get her mind off things. Okay, you made a little mistake, so what? Laugh about it a bit, and have fun for the rest of the night.

Well I didn't tell you what happened just now. I was coming out of the bathroom following scubasteve's advice and then I met her on the way to the bathroom. She seemed pretty mad so I said, "I'm sorry!" louder than I meant to. Everyone turned to stare at me and thats when things got really messed up. I was so busy typing on the handibook I had forgotten to put the boys back into their cave if you know what I mean. I was so embarrassed I ran back into the bathroom. This night has gone from bad to worse, I'm seriously thinking about just sneaking out of a window to my car and calling her in the morning...

I'm sorry, but, no matter how bad things are, if you are meant to be her ride back, at least offer to drive her home. Leaving her stranded would be worse for the date than an awkward car ride home.

Sorry it didn't work out. I guess all I can say is, sometimes you're going to have to take a few laughs at your expense. That's just how it goes. Running away isn't going to solve anything and usually just makes it worse.

She's banging on the door now, what the heck should i do!???