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Sea Gull

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27 Jun 2013, 7:19 am

What do you think about dating a NT guy or girl who already has a relationship.

Khoma
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27 Jun 2013, 9:01 am

No point. If I'm dating I want more than just sex. I don't want to compete for her attention. If I want sex I could go out for that purpose; that's not why I am dating someone.

I would never invade someone's relation. Even if they're looking to introduce a third factor: it's just setting up a lot of drama.

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27 Jun 2013, 9:23 am

I just feel like a man(NT) or just any other man requires so much emotional and sexual response. I guess more than I can offer.
Or maybe because the first guy I was ever with was (married) he said he thought I knew, he said he told me . But I swear either I didn't hear or maybe he just wasn't blatant about it, but I didn't know until after a good while later. But I must say I enjoyed the 'relationship' for the most part as I didn't have to invest too much.

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27 Jun 2013, 10:16 am

If it is an open relationship, everyone knows and accepts who is involved then fine. Otherwise no.

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27 Jun 2013, 10:18 am

Absolutely not. I find the thought of an open relationship repulsive. Sadly, they are all too common among other gay men...

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27 Jun 2013, 11:12 am

I'm a girl
and it was and has been my ONLY relationship -ever-it lasted about a month and it was SIX years ago. Wow I can't believe its been so long.........

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27 Jun 2013, 11:37 am

I don't see the problem if it's a consenting love triangle.

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20 Oct 2013, 2:56 pm

Never in a million years

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20 Oct 2013, 3:12 pm

No way! A relationship should only be between two people.

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20 Oct 2013, 3:45 pm

Heck no. I would karate chop them.

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20 Oct 2013, 3:56 pm

Forget it! I don't want to date anyone who's already taken, especially by a woman that I can't compete with. I also don't date other men when I myself am taken.

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20 Oct 2013, 4:06 pm

I slept with a girl who was in an on/off relationship once. Since I didn't know, I didn't do anything wrong.

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20 Oct 2013, 5:21 pm

Absolutely, positively, undeniably, matter-of-factly....NO!

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20 Oct 2013, 5:44 pm

It's just a waste of time. So no.

I dated a few men who were married, and I found out during the first date. It kind of disgust me.

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21 Oct 2013, 3:10 pm

Probably not...... so........

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21 Oct 2013, 3:36 pm

Doesn't matter if they're NT or not.

If everyone involved knows and is on board with it, sure. I am Poly, after all.

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