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AussieMatty
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25 Jul 2012, 6:32 am

Like you see other thread 'i got blind'. This is prime example of how I see women get interested in me and that. Then later on found out she is taken.

How screwed my life is? I'm so incredibly cursed to 'women already in relationship', 'i can't understand aspieness and hearing difficulties', 'drink way too much alcohol and shagger' and 'vice versa'.

Why Im incredibly attracted to curse and being lost at every single exact moment since 2007? Why me? Why?

I want to know why choose me to be a loser for women and can't get into relationship and get married like other people with me causing problems? I never ever knew what they going to be like from first place.

So screwed!



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25 Jul 2012, 7:23 am

Women like to flirt for fun, don't get fooled by that.

I think one of your problems is that you think too much about it. It works as a turn off.



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25 Jul 2012, 8:03 am

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Women like to flirt for fun, don't get fooled by that.

I think one of your problems is that you think too much about it. It works as a turn off.


This. Flirting for some folks men and women is just for fun. See it as that and act on other things instead such as actual offers.



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25 Jul 2012, 8:27 am

But see it like this, if you were THAT ugly, they wouldn't even have flirted with you, let alone made contact with you.



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25 Jul 2012, 8:33 am

I hate mind games too, but they do happen.

You just have to know when they do it for fun or not.


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25 Jul 2012, 8:55 am

CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:
I hate mind games too, but they do happen.

You just have to know when they do it for fun or not.


Well a lot of people with AS just have no way if knowing when its just for fun. I've had girls flirt and be serious about. Another girl would flirt with me same way that one did and not mean it.



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25 Jul 2012, 9:03 am

I don't think you did bad at all. You went over board telling her about AS too early and that might have put her off. You got more experience talking with a girl and the next one you'll do even better. Just don't let yourself get worked up thinking every one you encounter is "the One". Even if your friend zoned, just remember she has friends and it would be like networking so their is a possibility you might get some action after all.



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25 Jul 2012, 10:41 am

curlyfry wrote:
I don't think you did bad at all. You went over board telling her about AS too early and that might have put her off. You got more experience talking with a girl and the next one you'll do even better. Just don't let yourself get worked up thinking every one you encounter is "the One". Even if your friend zoned, just remember she has friends and it would be like networking so their is a possibility you might get some action after all.

Dream on.



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25 Jul 2012, 6:54 pm

Uni seems isn't for me. Too many pretenders and drunkies. Society already done the damage before me. Every week I always get surrounded by gym fitness beautiful women at the gym fitness classes. It more like hot chick produce aisle! I have no idea why guys not really turning up to those classes. They always hang around at bulk weights section. For me doing bulk weights section seems terribly overrated. I wanted to be tough guy with all rounder skills, strength, muscles and that etc.

What to choose from the aisle?



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27 Jul 2012, 8:38 am

Uprising wrote:
But see it like this, if you were THAT ugly, they wouldn't even have flirted with you, let alone made contact with you.


Ohhhhhh, they would. Trust me, I'm a one out of ten on the looks scale, plus I have other problems that keep girls from flirting with me for real. I've been "fake-flirted" with a whole bunch of times, much to my chagrin.

It's probably a generational thing. Both girls and guys do it a lot these days.


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28 Jul 2012, 5:37 am

AussieMatty wrote:
Uni seems isn't for me. Too many pretenders and drunkies. Society already done the damage before me. Every week I always get surrounded by gym fitness beautiful women at the gym fitness classes. It more like hot chick produce aisle! I have no idea why guys not really turning up to those classes. They always hang around at bulk weights section. For me doing bulk weights section seems terribly overrated. I wanted to be tough guy with all rounder skills, strength, muscles and that etc.

What to choose from the aisle?


Did you go to uni to study, or get a girlfriend?


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28 Jul 2012, 5:51 am

Study of course, for last semester right now before graduation.

But what about those people who have both as study good grades and a girlfriend? I seen them around, plenty couples. Their grades isn't affected by the relationship. I find it really weird correlation.



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28 Jul 2012, 6:03 am

How's the study going? If it's going well, then uni probably is a good place for you. It would be a pity to throw it all away because you're disappointed at not being able to find a girlfriend.


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28 Jul 2012, 6:37 am

My grades is very good of course. I'm saying uni socially isn't really reasonable for me due to large presence of alcohol and poor attitude people.

There always lot of loud and bad mouthed women here at the uni, and most of them drinks to get drunk. Before I started uni, lot of people told me uni is never like high school. Then prove themselves wrong! Its far worse than high school.

I'm not gritting desperado for finding a girlfriend. I find it not suitable because its terribly risky to find one here due to large presence of alcohol and doubt minded attitude.



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28 Jul 2012, 7:34 am

DialAForAwesome wrote:
Uprising wrote:
But see it like this, if you were THAT ugly, they wouldn't even have flirted with you, let alone made contact with you.


Ohhhhhh, they would. Trust me, I'm a one out of ten on the looks scale, plus I have other problems that keep girls from flirting with me for real. I've been "fake-flirted" with a whole bunch of times, much to my chagrin.

It's probably a generational thing. Both girls and guys do it a lot these days.


People did this to me at school and I thought they were serious :( I was a laughing stock!



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28 Jul 2012, 9:01 am

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