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havnoy
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06 Aug 2012, 9:35 am

i use atleast 6 month to trust anyone enough to fall in love, and then they look at me as a "brother." and when i get 3 new friends every decade, it is not plausible that i ever get a girlfriend, any tips anyone? :) (excuse my bad english, my native language skills are superbe, but english is not my native language)


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06 Aug 2012, 9:58 am

havnoy wrote:
i use atleast 6 month to trust anyone enough to fall in love, and then they look at me as a "brother." and when i get 3 new friends every decade, it is not plausible that i ever get a girlfriend, any tips anyone? :) (excuse my bad english, my native language skills are superbe, but english is not my native language)


Jeg er lige sådan. Der er vel ikke så meget at gøre, det er bare en anderledes måde at være på :colors:


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06 Aug 2012, 10:01 am

I think most people cling to the idea of love at first sight, as seen on TV, and more often than not against all odds. If you click on the "Community" button in the left upper corner, you find a section named "dating." For most people who are looking for a relationship, as opposed to an affair, dating sites are the means of choice for the reason you mention yourself: getting to know people is chewing up your time and more or less a matter of chance because you can't be sure that you actually meet someone you have actually enough in common with. This goes for friends as well as for girlfriends.