Asking a girl out

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Okay I think I may finally be stupid or brave enough to ask my 7th grade crush out to prom. Any advice on what not to do if she says yes or even no?

Well, I would try to keep my cool and not lose it, because if she says yes and you lose your cool, it might make her not want to go with you. If she says no, take it and move on.

good luck.

Well, the ollowing advice may seem a little bit cliche, but if she says no, then the best you can do is just turn around and see if anyone else wants to go. One of the most untrue thing about going is that you have to be an item for a dance. Plus, the whole there are other fishes in the sea thing is all too true. When one girl simply says no, another is just wait ing for you to ask them. So, don't be discouraged.

And if they say yes, then it's okay to be relieved, but you don't have to bounce off the walls. Just be happy with the fact that you finally have someone to take. I think it is a bonus point and probably easier to get them to say yes, if they know you because I heard some ladies are more inclined to date you based upon not just looks but personality, as well. So, why not pal with her, get to know her, and see if it is worth it beforehand? Totally ignore that advice, if you have already.

If you agree that:

1) if you don't ask, you certainly will not go with her.

2) if you ask, and she says yes, you will feel incredible

3) if you ask, and she says no, then you will not regret your lack of decisiveness

then, you will succeed no matter the outcome!

Someone already asked her.