As I'm sure most of you are aware school is starting again. School means homecoming. I know a girl I want to ask, but from here the problems arise
First problem, I don't know how to ask. Outside of the classes I have with her I have no way of contact. However I'm not completely random, she knows me and has talked to me in the past week. The relationship simplifies to there is a chance she could say yes. I know other people ask in exciting ways but with the limitation of school I'm not sure I can do that. I may have a way to get her address through her friends but even then I dot know what to do.
TL:DR How do I ask, and is it creepy to ask a friend for her address to ask in a more exciting way?
Second problem, the outcomes. There are two possible outcomes here, yes and no. Starting with no I have a fear of rejection. How do you lose a fear of rejection and handle it better? Now the answer yes, this is what I want to happen but then what. I've never attended a school dance like this and don't know what to do. What is the procedure leading up to the dance, I've gathered the guy usually pays but beyond that nothing.
TL:DR how do I get over possible rejection? And what happens if she says yes, I've never don't something like this before.
Thank you for your time and if you reply thank you for you help.
11 Sep 2012, 8:15 am
