What should I do? I love three girls at the same time!

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31 Aug 2012, 9:46 pm

No joke, and they all remind me of each other too. They all have the cutest sense of humor and also similar voices. And the same sweet smile. A couple times I called a couple of them the wrong name and they thought it was funny... I was lucky on that one. This is why it hurts so much to say goodbye to any of them.



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31 Aug 2012, 9:50 pm

Love? How well do you know them? Have you been in a relationship with them? I couldn't love someone until I'd gotten to know them intimately. Maybe you just like them?

Anyway, if they are all the same, then it should be fine to just have one. Why have three of the same thing?



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31 Aug 2012, 9:54 pm

Pick one, and introduce the other two to me.



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31 Aug 2012, 9:55 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
Pick one, and introduce the other two to me.

Why do you get two? You can have one, I'll have the other. I was here before you anyway :tongue:



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31 Aug 2012, 9:57 pm

By "love" I'm not gonna lie... yes we all had "relations" different weekends if you know what I mean... :roll:



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31 Aug 2012, 10:01 pm

rastaking wrote:
By "love" I'm not gonna lie... yes we all had "relations" different weekends if you know what I mean... :roll:

Lol...well...relations is different to relationship. I find it pretty interesting that you could feel actual love for that many people at one time. I've been in love twice in my life and I didn't have any room for anyone else during those times. But like and lust, sure, I think those are pretty limitless.



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31 Aug 2012, 10:10 pm

Here's another issue though: my parents don't really know about any of this, and I don't want them to know. I feel kind of embarrassed that I tend to fall for "cute" girls and not "tough" girls. My family values masculinity and macho but these girls are all still in high school (I finished at the beginning of June) and have some growing up to do.



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31 Aug 2012, 10:18 pm

Oh, you are not 48? Anyway, you shouldn't be at all embarrassed about what type of girl you are attracted to. You don't have to follow in your family's footsteps, in fact that wouldn't be a good idea if you were just pretending to like someone because you thought your parents would approve.



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31 Aug 2012, 10:19 pm

rastaking wrote:
Here's another issue though: my parents don't really know about any of this, and I don't want them to know. I feel kind of embarrassed that I tend to fall for "cute" girls and not "tough" girls. My family values masculinity and macho but these girls are all still in high school (I finished at the beginning of June) and have some growing up to do.


So you're not really 48 (like your profile says) but are barely out of highachool?

Are you sure you're really an aspie?

Getting laid too often is not a common problem among aspie guys.



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31 Aug 2012, 10:35 pm

You need to try and concoct a polite way of inviting them ALL over for an orgy some night. This will do wonders in abolishing Aspie stereotypes if you record and disperse the resulting footage!



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31 Aug 2012, 10:40 pm

I know what love is, and so I don't need to bother girls with my special hobbies.



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01 Sep 2012, 3:53 pm

Let me clarify my last post. I am NOT interested in bothering my girlfriend with my hobbies, social issues, etc. My romantic life is sort of an escape from all my family issues, school issues, etc.



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01 Sep 2012, 4:05 pm

rastaking wrote:
Here's another issue though: my parents don't really know about any of this, and I don't want them to know. I feel kind of embarrassed that I tend to fall for "cute" girls and not "tough" girls. My family values masculinity and macho but these girls are all still in high school (I finished at the beginning of June) and have some growing up to do.

Well at 48, I'm not sure that chasing teen girls will help.
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01 Sep 2012, 4:46 pm

I know, I changed my profile age to 48, get over it. Not to be funny, but because people often tell me I seem much older than I am (not based on looks, but the way I act). And 1964 was one of my favorite years.



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01 Sep 2012, 5:13 pm

Why 1964?



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01 Sep 2012, 5:20 pm

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