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01 Sep 2012, 10:07 am

i myself am not really picky when it comes too girls

one guy on this website said a very interesting statement 6 years "anyone has the right too be as picky as they want too be, but if you have not got lot of girls are interested in you, you will ruin your chances"

Do u agree with that statement or not? What do you think he meant in more depth by "ruin your chances"?



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01 Sep 2012, 10:16 am

im not picky either ive had relations with all types of girls and have no real preference.
i kinda see how what he means basicly you have more of a chance since there is more of them.
its all about the person for me tbh but havent realy found one that has worked out properly with



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01 Sep 2012, 10:29 am

You only get to be picky if you have multiple women to pick from! Otherwise you take what comes along, one at a time, and see if it works out.


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01 Sep 2012, 10:37 am

Does ruin your chances mean the odds of finding a gf if you have been picky in the past are very slim?



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01 Sep 2012, 11:26 am

It's all a matter of probability. If you only date women with green eyes, black hair, freckles, you're going to be missing out on everyone who doesn't have those qualities. The more people that you date and get to know, the better the chance that it will work out with one of them.



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01 Sep 2012, 11:40 am

If not many girls like you, and you don't like many girls I think it would be time to lower that bar.



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01 Sep 2012, 12:01 pm

I'm everybody's type



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01 Sep 2012, 12:18 pm

It's supply and demand, you can only be picky if you are in high demand. It's why the least attractive men are often the least discerning.



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01 Sep 2012, 12:33 pm

TM wrote:
It's supply and demand, you can only be picky if you are in high demand. It's why the least attractive men are often the least discerning.


I know a couple of good looking guys who would hump a lame duck if it couldnt get away quickly enough



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01 Sep 2012, 12:34 pm

when it comes too guys who are picky do you think if they turn down girls in there teens then they might have too wait years untill they get more chances?

i personaly think picky guys are foolish



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01 Sep 2012, 12:39 pm

Surfman wrote:
TM wrote:
It's supply and demand, you can only be picky if you are in high demand. It's why the least attractive men are often the least discerning.


I know a couple of good looking guys who would hump a lame duck if it couldnt get away quickly enough


Just because you can be picky doesn't mean that you have to be. Furthermore, being a good looking guy doesn't mean you are in high demand.



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01 Sep 2012, 12:40 pm

I am not sure if I understood. Was he saying that you should not be picky unless there are women interested in you? I am not trying to be pedantic, but his grammar is even worse than mine. Is that a direct quote?


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01 Sep 2012, 12:46 pm

Magnus_Rex wrote:
I am not sure if I understood. Was he saying that you should not be picky unless there are women interested in you? I am not trying to be pedantic, but his grammar is even worse than mine. Is that a direct quote?


He's in essence saying that being picky when you don't have a ton of women chasing you, is not a good idea.

To give an analogy, he's saying that if you're dying of thirst, turning down water because it doesn't have ice cubes and a slice of lime is idiotic.



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01 Sep 2012, 12:50 pm

yeah sorry about my bad spelling



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01 Sep 2012, 1:01 pm

OK, it looks like I understood it correctly anyway. Sorry about mein Grammar Nazism. :D


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01 Sep 2012, 1:18 pm

Magnus_Rex wrote:
OK, it looks like I understood it correctly anyway. Sorry about mein Grammar Nazism. :D



Do u agree the statement has a lot of truth too it though