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cyberfox007
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10 Sep 2012, 11:34 am

I asked this girl i have a small liking to for coffee and after some time asking her, she said yes. I do have a small liking to her and i am hopeful that this could read to something. She is suspicious of the context of the meeting but i told her it was just to have a friendly chat over coffee. I am gonna keep my cards close to my chest for this one and try not to flinch.

Need some tips plz.



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10 Sep 2012, 11:39 am

Go slow.



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10 Sep 2012, 12:07 pm

You could discuss about animals



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10 Sep 2012, 12:31 pm

Don't say something that isn't true about yourself.
Another thing is to LOWER your expectations. Instead of making your goal to be in a relationship, make your goal to acquire her friendship.
That way, anything else is a bonus.


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cyberfox007
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11 Sep 2012, 2:35 pm

The meeting went super well. She did most of he talking and we smiled a good chunk of the conversation. She said she would like to meet with me again but not for a while since she is moving.

I plan to see her in the future.



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11 Sep 2012, 5:05 pm

Well done! The fact that she did most of the talking and that the meeting may lead to another is good.

Did you ask her questions, or did she just talk?