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ace1089
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12 Sep 2012, 9:30 pm

My name is David and iam 22, live in Florida and I have a mild form of Asperger's. Well my question is I don't know how to talk to women I like. I don't know how to approach them or even talk to them. Its hard for me to open up to ppl in general and tell them how I feel about them. And I also always think they will say no or that ill offend them or something. Ive never had a girlfriend at all but id like to have one. Anyone have any solutions to this problem or advice?



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12 Sep 2012, 10:07 pm

Been using PUA stuff (Cocky/funny, negging, etc.), and gotten some responses. Just went out with a MILF who led me to four other women so far.



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12 Sep 2012, 10:11 pm

ace1089 wrote:
My name is David and iam 22, live in Florida and I have a mild form of Asperger's. Well my question is I don't know how to talk to women I like. I don't know how to approach them or even talk to them. Its hard for me to open up to ppl in general and tell them how I feel about them. And I also always think they will say no or that ill offend them or something. Ive never had a girlfriend at all but id like to have one. Anyone have any solutions to this problem or advice?
this post won't help you at all but im david 22 and have mild aspies and have never had a gf lol. I can hold a conversation with them and make them laugh but still no girls like me. my bday is also in 0/89 -__-


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12 Sep 2012, 10:25 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
ace1089 wrote:
My name is David and iam 22, live in Florida and I have a mild form of Asperger's. Well my question is I don't know how to talk to women I like. I don't know how to approach them or even talk to them. Its hard for me to open up to ppl in general and tell them how I feel about them. And I also always think they will say no or that ill offend them or something. Ive never had a girlfriend at all but id like to have one. Anyone have any solutions to this problem or advice?
this post won't help you at all but im david 22 and have mild aspies and have never had a gf lol. I can hold a conversation with them and make them laugh but still no girls like me. my bday is also in 0/89 -__-


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12 Sep 2012, 10:37 pm

ace1089 wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
ace1089 wrote:
My name is David and iam 22, live in Florida and I have a mild form of Asperger's. Well my question is I don't know how to talk to women I like. I don't know how to approach them or even talk to them. Its hard for me to open up to ppl in general and tell them how I feel about them. And I also always think they will say no or that ill offend them or something. Ive never had a girlfriend at all but id like to have one. Anyone have any solutions to this problem or advice?
this post won't help you at all but im david 22 and have mild aspies and have never had a gf lol. I can hold a conversation with them and make them laugh but still no girls like me. my bday is also in 0/89 -__-


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?? who the fuark is making fun of you?


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12 Sep 2012, 10:56 pm

ace1089, wtfid2 was finding it funny that you both have similar (identical) situations.


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12 Sep 2012, 11:14 pm

Just talk to girls. I found I had to fail several times before I just stopped caring. After you stop caring what strangers think of you, you can be quite successful. Be yourself :)



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12 Sep 2012, 11:30 pm

ace1089 wrote:
My name is David and iam 22, live in Florida and I have a mild form of Asperger's. Well my question is I don't know how to talk to women I like. I don't know how to approach them or even talk to them. Its hard for me to open up to ppl in general and tell them how I feel about them. And I also always think they will say no or that ill offend them or something. Ive never had a girlfriend at all but id like to have one. Anyone have any solutions to this problem or advice?
You have to place yourself in social situations where you feel comfortable.Forget about cold approaching a stranger,that's difficult even for confident guys and almost impossible for an Aspie.I suggest you concentrate on women who share many of the same traits that you do such as social awkwardness.