dont settle for someone you are totally not attracted to, dont try too hard, you never seem to get anywere when you are desperate.
ive been married for 5 years but did go through a stage were i thought no one would want me for more than a fling.
Heaps of guys seem to think you need a fat wallet, ferarri and be quick with smooth lines to get attractive chicks but thats not always true, sometimes that stuff even scares them away, i was flat broke with a old car i had done up when i met my wife, i lived in a flat and didnt own a bed, cuttlery or nothing, i lived on takeaway and couldnt even afford to eat much, most of my cash went on fuel. all my clothes had holes. I got wife and she isnt too bad looking.
on our first date i ran out of petrol and she bought me smokes becuase i was broke, i used all my money getting us into were we were going wich was actually a burnout competition i had my car entered in.
i wouldnt recommend running out of cash on a date but i think taking her somewere i was well known and i felt comfortable may have made it easier for me to impress rather than taking her somewere i would be less comfortable like a fancy resturaunt were i would have stuffed things up, it also was a introduction of what i do and am into instead of boring her talking about it.
My wife was a friend of a couple i knew that had simular interests so it was like a double date but was asked like "do you want to come with us in our mates car on sunday, he has spare seats", I think we both knew all along what it was about and the rest just happened.
10 Dec 2006, 5:05 pm
