one strike and your out club

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anyone here male and female who are in the ''one strike and your out'' club.
I had one gf. and she left me and that was it. I doubt I will ever date again.
so anyone else here had one boyfriend or girlfriend or even married once but after
the relationship end that pretty much it

I have. The one person I dated was abusive and eventually tried to kill me, which kind of ruined dating for me in the sense that I have no idea how it's actually supposed to work. I've quit trying to ever date people, partly because I know I have no chance with anyone, and partly because I don't actually understand it and why I would want it. I already hate kissing, and I'd feel perfectly fine cuddling with friends and having sex with people I trust to an extent (not that any of my friends will actually DO any of these things with me). I already have a lot of very close, supportive friends to whom I am very attatched, and all my emotional "love and attatchment" needs are fulfilled through them and my family (but I know that family does not replace dating). I feel like I must be missing something. What else is there to dating besides a title and the idea that other people would act differently towards me?

There was only one girl that I'd consider a "true gf" back when I was 18, and she was a model too. Never did anything besides kissing though, and I haven't kissed anyone since then either.

i wasn't aware it was a club. i think somebody signed up using my credentials....