Getting a phone number.

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I have come a long way with my interactions with women. The problem now is not talking or even going out on a date, but rather it is getting their phone number or asking them out on date. I have practice with this, but it seems that I forget. I will have a nice conversation with a woman, so nice that I forgot to ask her out or atleast ask her for her number. Is any ways I can improve this?

Not sure what you mean with ''improve this'' cause you can't really improve. You just forget to ask her number. What'd help is to keep repeating ''ask for her phone number'' in your head before you're going to see her. It'd work for me. If I didn't understand you correctly, I'm sorry.

The problem for me is how and when to ask for her phone number or email address....

The key is to make the conversation relaxing to the female. You must make the interaction include some humour. At the end, if you think the conversation went well, say I gotta go, but what's your number?

I'm nervous about asking this particular girl for her number. Facebook isn't helping, obviously, and she doesn't have a crush on anyone. I recently graduated from the college she goes to (in fact, she lived on my floor for most of last semester, which was my last semester of college). Last time I asked a girl for her number it ended in a Facebook block (but somehow her profile seemed really fake). This girl, let's call her "Nikki", on Facebook, when I said "But I hope to make a trip to [the SUNY school which I shall not mention here on WP] to see some people soon" her response was "Nicole: oo let me know when that is!"

I'm stuck.

Is there an etiquette for asking a girl for her number?

Just ask her. Start with some small talk like about classes or something going on. Let her do all the talking, this is something I have learn the hard way. Then you ask her for her number like " I just realized I don't have your number?" or " Would you like to get coffee sometime, I sent you a text? What's your number?" or " We should go out sometime?" If she agrees, suggest a place and time and then ask for her number. I hope that helps.