Fnord wrote:
My Asian wife loves me, and I love her. She had many suitors, but chose me because I show respect for her as a person.
I've met many Asian women who seemed hostile to any white man who even said 'Hello' to them. I've also seen the same behavior from Middle-Eastern women, African women, European women, Hispanic women, and even White women. There seems to be no commonality or consistency between the races.
Finally, I'm as sick of "Yellow Fever" jokes as any person married to an African-American would be sick of "Jungle Fever" jokes (and the movie of the same name).
Yep, as could be evidence from one of my threads (that got like 100 replies) white men liking Asian women is usually seen as not a cool thing.
Anyway, I'm white, and Asian girls haven't gone after me unfortunately. I've had one very positive experience with Asian girls, these Korean girls on vacation invited me to play volleyball with them in the pool and were nice to me. Anyway, if you want a thread about this topic somewhat, I made one "How to talk to Asian girls" I think it's called. Everyone bitched at me and said I was like the most terrible person ever, but if you wanna read.
Anyway, here's what I've found. Asians that are still foreigners are fairly nice to white people. Also, the "poorer" Asian ethnic groups are nicer and more "warmer" people to be around, like the Hmong especially. In America, though, I've finally figured out my trouble getting to know the Asian girls was less cultural than socioeconomic. I realized most of the Asian girls I tried talking to were fairly rich, and wearing super nice clothes, their fathers driving like new BMWs and stuff. Then I compared my success talking to them with white women of equivalent economic status, and found out it was about the same. So less of the problem was intrinsic to being Asian than I thought. I do think, though, in Asian communities, much more is valued on material success, due to lacking it in their own countries. I remember reading a story about an elite high school in I believe NYC that's like 70% Asian student body, because all their parents make them study hard so they can be rich and successful. So if you're not on the same mindset of that, then you're gonna be hopeless for the most part.
As far as overseas, I've got no idea. I do know in Japan nobody wants to marry Japanese women past age 30, so you got good pickin's for Japanese women that are "old" at 30 years old and "fat" at like a 24 BMI.