women who is nice vs women who is interest

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here another one I get mixed up alot (and sure other men do to)
what the difference between a woman who is just nice person vs a woman who is truly romanticly interest in you.
cuz sometimes I talk to ladies and they are really nice (like smiling,seem happy,etc)
but sometimes I wonder are these ladies just nice ladies or do they have a legit interest in me.
Im sure alot aspie/autism male have trouble on this one too.

If she hints at wanting to spend more time with you outside of whatever environment you usually interact in (work, school, whatever), theres a very good chance she's interested. Or, at the very least, probably won't be too weirded out if you make a move.

If she's consistently friendly, but never looks for chances to interact beyond the ways you already do, she's probably just friendly. Sometimes a woman who starts out this way can end up genuinely interested. But don't count on it, it's rare.


If she talks to you about her personal life, she may be interested.

If she only talks to you about more impersonal stuff then, no matter her friendliness level, she's probably not interested.

If you try to ask them questions and they're only giving one-word answers, they're probably just trying to be nice. If they're reciprocating by asking you questions, then they're interested. It doesn't necessarily mean that they're interested in a romantic relationship, but it does mean that they're interested in further friendship.

Try asking questions about a topic that you know is interesting to the girl. If you haven't the slightest idea, use a more obvious conversation starter. Maybe she's wearing a funny t-shirt, or maybe she's walking her dog.

yeah, it can be tricky sometimes. Knowing the difference.