billiscool wrote:
my problem with dating. For me I need to get out more and talk to a more range of women.
Most of the women I've talk to are young 20 years old who work at the gym I go to ( and all the others gym before).
but My problem is that Im not a very social person, nor do I care to be. I don't mind do something once a week.
or couple times a month. I am going to pick up volleyball class couple times a month. and do go to a pizza party every 1 or 2 months. I don't like online dating. However do I like doing activity things.
there are alot aspie folks (especial the ladies) who are not very social but manage to find a partner.
what advice would you give to almost non social person to find a date or female friendship?
Advice only, no insults.
aspie females find a partner bc guys go up to them. if a guy is not social it is near impossible to get laid. This is for many reasons. One of them is social norms. If a woman thins you're cute she usually will think to herself(if he likes me he will approach me) so since as an aspie i doubt you approach her, you end up masturbating at night.
second reason is, girls are shy too which comes back to if you dont approach her she wont approach you.
Also girls dont need a relationship they just want one. They say to themselves..ahh he didnt approach me no big deal another guy will..while you are at home crying that your last hope f getting laid slipped out of your hands again lol.
there is also social stigma that gets in the way. For females approaching first is a social stigma of slut/cling. For guys it is creep or rapist. Both of these work together to further alienate males from getting sumtin sumthin.
check this vid out.
it;s old and he is almost 38 now same crap.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pu9jZJ1q88E&feature=plcp
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AQ 25
Your Aspie score: 101 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 111 of 200
You seem to have both Aspie and neurotypical traits
27 Oct 2012, 1:51 pm
