I'm so confused and depressed

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My ex girlfriend married my ex boyfriend the other day. Yes, I said "boyfriend". Anyway, I'm still friends with her but she is moving away to live with her new husband and I don't know how I'm supposed to deal with something like that. I have people telling me to let her go and end all contact with her completely. But I don't want to. She and I are still friends and I don't want that to end. I don't want things to change between us. This is all so confusing. And, at the same time, I feel sad. Not because of him. I'm over him. I'm sad about losing her and things changing forever between us. I then start to feel like I am not meant to have a "soulmate" like her and I'm destined to be alone for the rest of my life. I just have all these thoughts and feelings running through my head and I feel like I'm going to have a meltdown or something. I don't know what's going on or what to do.

Anyway, sorry for going on like that. I needed someone to talk to and I was hoping someone here would understand.

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It's time to move on and focus on positive relationships you can build, as difficult as it sounds right now, you need to set yourself positive and realistic goals that will take your mind away from the current situation.

I'm sure you're a great guy and you sound like you have a lot of heart but wouldn't want to give that heart and love to someone that is deserving of it? Someone that isn't going to through it back at you?

Get rid of them both. Bros before hoes so to speak