is it normal not to get over your ex

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billiscool
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18 Nov 2012, 2:20 am

my ex girlfriend end our relationship 5 years ago and to this day I still can't get over her.
is this normal. I once thought about suicide because I miss her so much ( Im no longer suicidal)
I think about her all the time. I always wonder what she is doing. I still wish she would come back to me.
I want to find another woman just like her but I can't....
I hate it. why did she leave me? I really, really miss her and want her back but it's not going to happen.
What sad is no other women can match her beauty and her personality.



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18 Nov 2012, 4:55 am

Billiscool, "normal" is a cycle on a washing machine. We all take different amounts of time to heal. It took me 4 years to get over my last relationship, so I can empathise with you. What's really stupid, is that it took me all that time, and now I am involved with someone I would rather not be, but think it is too late to be able to tell him I don't want to see him anymore (and it's not the truth).

Why do you say it's impossible to get back with your ex gf? Has she got someone else?