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I have never had a relationship that worked out ever. I can't really stand, or understand relationships. They're way to much work and I end up becoming obsessed and looking like a weird stalker I think, I'm not sure. I'm not sad about it. The problem is my libido(sex drive) is hard to control, any tips or tricks on how to suppress it? Ever since I was a kid I've wished to be an orb the could float around endlessly without any attachments, to learn everything. That's not possible, I know, but is libido suppression?

The title of this post made me laugh hard enough to see if you had anything interesting to say.
I think... I don't know. I've never been able to figure that out. ACTUALLY, maybe just try to focus on obsessions/hobbies, because the opposite sex is somewhat a distraction from that. Just try to focus on that, and you'll forget the rest. And no, don't take medication like half the people on here might tell you. That's exactly how you screw yourself up.

There's certain medications (many antidepressants) and a particular "permanent surgical procedure" that suppress libido, but I don't recommend either by any means, particularly not the latter option lol. I think that the far better approach is to try to work on the issues that are causing you problems with relationships. Perhaps it's the more difficult and stressful option, but certainly the more rewarding one in the end.

PS: Don't know what it has to do with anything, but I used to want to be an orb like that too lol! It was actually a recurring dream of mine not long ago that I would turn into a little invisible orb and visit other galaxies/planets and learn all sorts of cool stuff there. I guess that's more common an idea than I thought haha.

Well, why not just masturbate? I do that for at least an hour or two each day, and it takes away my strong desire for sex with others...

I get the feeling you haven't masturbated before and this obsession as a result has made you hyper tense and sensitive to those emotions and cravings.
Just give it a try. But beware arousal addiction.

Lift weights. Go extra hard compared to everyone else so you get a lot of weight off your chest lol.

You know what I mean though.

...what? of course I've masturbated before. I don't understand how you got that out of what I said. I simply want my brain to function without having to think at all about sex or masturbation. I feel like I could accomplish so much.

Well, okay then I don't think you can get your brain to do that unless it starts to receive pleasure from what is probably seen as a higher purpose. Some use religion and knowledge as means to counter their sex drive.

Two hours a day, really? Wow.
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