Crushes aren't always what they seem

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I totally crush on girls that sparks my interest. And it's pretty genuine and legitimate, as much as it can be for not really knowing someone, it's not just anything with boobs. BUT, recently, a crush of mine, after about 6 months of working with her, things never panned out, I actually quit the job for various reasons.... but I'm really not upset that nothing came of it, perspective gave me some insight.

I'm actually not sure about this whole crush thing.... not in a bitter way, but I dont think going for a girl based on an overwhelming emotional feeling without some intelligent thought, allowing time to answer certain questions, is the right thing to do.

Anyone else doubt the validity of your crushes?

My last "crush" never asked questions and expected me to just say it. He acted like I was the one who had a major problem because I listened and then he is like "I got to go to work" We left and I texted him and it was a huge blowup acting like i should have said something then and not later. He acted like I needed to always have the "last word" when I just didnt understand in the moment. The whole situation gave me a lot of perspective but it hurt