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ShyChristianGirl
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22 Nov 2012, 11:57 pm

I joined this one site called Fanpop 2 years ago when I was looking up my ex boy friend to see how he was doing at the time. This is the first I had ever even known about this site, cause I typed in his first and last name on Yahoo search and like surprisingly his Fanpop profile showed up. He puts his first and last name on the site so I guess thats why I found him. So, anyway after I looked at his profile and found out everything I wanted to know. I still never deleted my account there. He doesn't even know I have an account there at all and I still haven't made any contact with him since we broke up 4 years ago. I don't intend to ever do so. Well, since I've joined this site I've left it alone for a while and tried not to do anything on it. I just joined a couple of clubs and I never talked to anyone at all on it, until just recently. Yes, I made a post on two new clubs I joined recently. I just couldn't resist. I was trying not to, but something I liked popped up on Yahoo search, something on that site and it was something I really liked a lot. This site is starting to seem really fun to me now and I'd like to try and chat more with people on it, but what if I bump into him some where on it? I really don't want to. I'm so scared, scared to death. Hes really mean. If he knew I had one he'd probably be in an angry rage about it. I really mean no harm in this though, but he'd never understand. He has Autism as well and probably has some sort of anger issues or disorders of some type, that I've never really understood, but yeah hes really scary when he gets mad. He gets angered easily. I'm really not trying to invade his area at all and I know that this is surely his most favorite site online, but again I'm not trying to invade on him. Am I horrible? Maybe, I am...I don't know. I've never done anything to hurt him ever though and I still never want to hurt or anger him. He was always the bad guy. The one hurting me all of the time. So, I can't be that horrible, but I feel kind of terrible. Is it really okay for me to be on this site? And I just don't know what to do if he ever were to accidentally find me on there. I'm like so scared to death.



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23 Nov 2012, 12:27 am

This is kind of hilarious, yeah? You're quite the investigator! So, anyhow, be careful!



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23 Nov 2012, 1:05 am

Truthfully, I think the site is too large for you to bump into him, provided that you don't join anything that he is listed in or where he has talked. It's not wrong for you to be on the site, considering that you find it interesting and that you broke up with him years ago.


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23 Nov 2012, 2:43 am

Ewags wrote:
This is kind of hilarious, yeah? You're quite the investigator! So, anyhow, be careful!


I know I know...I'm a stalker...Oh, well..



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23 Nov 2012, 2:46 am

Scaurie wrote:
Truthfully, I think the site is too large for you to bump into him, provided that you don't join anything that he is listed in or where he has talked. It's not wrong for you to be on the site, considering that you find it interesting and that you broke up with him years ago.


You really think so? I mean we have a whole lot of the same Interests and if we end up joining the same clubs or areas then we might bump into each other easily and most likely the same friends of his that he made on that site will come and try to befriend and talk to me as well, since they all have the same Interests like the both of us. I'm just saying...but, hopefully that won't happen.



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23 Nov 2012, 7:32 am

ShyChristianGirl wrote:
Scaurie wrote:
Truthfully, I think the site is too large for you to bump into him, provided that you don't join anything that he is listed in or where he has talked. It's not wrong for you to be on the site, considering that you find it interesting and that you broke up with him years ago.


You really think so? I mean we have a whole lot of the same Interests and if we end up joining the same clubs or areas then we might bump into each other easily and most likely the same friends of his that he made on that site will come and try to befriend and talk to me as well, since they all have the same Interests like the both of us. I'm just saying...but, hopefully that won't happen.


Unless your real name is on the site, you can lie with an alias.


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23 Nov 2012, 11:44 pm

CrazyStarlightRedux wrote:
ShyChristianGirl wrote:
Scaurie wrote:
Truthfully, I think the site is too large for you to bump into him, provided that you don't join anything that he is listed in or where he has talked. It's not wrong for you to be on the site, considering that you find it interesting and that you broke up with him years ago.


You really think so? I mean we have a whole lot of the same Interests and if we end up joining the same clubs or areas then we might bump into each other easily and most likely the same friends of his that he made on that site will come and try to befriend and talk to me as well, since they all have the same Interests like the both of us. I'm just saying...but, hopefully that won't happen.


Unless your real name is on the site, you can lie with an alias.


No, I haven't put my real name on the site or my state. I just put my country. Anyway, I'm an honest person. I don't like to "lie" like you were saying. So, what else could I do? I could always block him, but then that would cause a lot of trouble and get him upset in some way most likely and be like why is this person blocking me and making a big scene about it in front of all the other members there.