meems wrote:
Not at all. There is a lot of beauty in discovering a person as the relationship progresses.
I don't want control over my partner.
This ^^
Fantasizing like that creates an impossible ideal no real person could ever live up to. It's a recipe for endless disappointments and a lonely existence.
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I'm not likely to be around much longer. As before when I first signed up here years ago, I'm finding that after a long hiatus, and after only a few days back on here, I'm spending way too much time here again already. So I'm requesting my account be locked, banned or whatever. It's just time. Until then, well, I dunno...