3 qualities...

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...your ideal romantic partner would have, and you couldn't do without.

Mine would be:

Honesty
Loyalty
Kindness

I already have a person who I believe is as close to my ideal partner as it's possible to get.

I'd say for me it'd be:-
Intelligence
Patience
Loner

Yes, inteligence is a priority. I think I shall swap with loyalty.

I guess, with me, honesty would be the best thing as I hate guesswork. (Is this person leaving me? Does this person really like me? Does this person just want my money?)
Honesty (from an NT? Fat chance!)
Loyalty (not like a dog, but...)
Patience (yeah, I'm not the easiest person to be with)
Intelligence (actually, they can be as dumb as a box of rocks. I don't mind.)

Tits
Hips
Ass


Kidding. What I'm really looking for is someone that isn't necessarily smart but open to learning and new ideas. Someone respectful and kind. And someone with their own life.

EDIT: I really should stop being lazy and scroll down to the Reply button instead of fast tracking my way by clicking Quote.

Last edited by JanuaryMan on 26 Nov 2012, 5:36 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Intelligence
Loyalty
Cuteness (I don't mean this in the shallow way; I find the vast, VAST majority of women have interesting quirks or personality traits I find cute )

Intelligence
Ambition
Like fuzzy animals

and thats actually taken from my dating profile for what im looking for.

Intelligence
Humour
Empathy

Loyality(#1!)-Absolute necessary
Sex-compatible
Masculine

What types of fuzzy animals? Like Bunnies!! !!???

Wit, kindness and loyalty.

i have a dog and 2 cats.
but there was a bunny up for adoption at the local pet store a few months back, i really wanted it too. but the cats I'm sure would love to play with it more.

physical attraction(being honest)
honesty
daily communication

Intelligence. Not necessarily in the form of being highly-educated, but a person who questions things and wants to learn more, and where we can talk on the same level and interest each other.

Sexual attraction. It's either there or it isn't and can't be created. Without that, it's just a platonic friends/housemates relationship. Which can be great, but I want that extra level in a loving relationship.

Consideration. That's really romantic. I don't want the big stereotyped romantic gestures, I want the man who gets up to make himself a coffee and makes me one too. Where whoever is home first runs the other a bath for when they get home on a cold night. Forwarding me an interesting link he found online.

in all honesty i dont classify people by a checklist of what is good and what is bad.

most of these are not really detailed things though, just abstract overall features. when i browse profiles on okc, theres many different kinds of people i am willing to message, but theres a few things that have to be there if theres going to be any level of attraction.