shadexiii wrote:
It isn't mysterious, it is merely involuntary, at least in my case. It happens, or it doesn't. There's no mental process that occurs. There's no reasoning. (Well, there is, but even if the result is "This person is not good for you," I can't seem to accept that conclusion often.) It isn't a choice. It seems like little more than a variable that is pre-set, that I encounter, and that I attempt to deal with.
That is pretty much my experience with love. It's really cool when it happens, but it's not something you can really control. If you interact with enough people, sooner or later you will meet someone that your brain decides (for whatever reason) you're compatible with. That's when the strange things really happen. All of a sudden you just instinctively know exactly the right things to do and say. You find yourself doing stuff you just don't do in real life like talking on the phone for two hours (and it seems like only a few minutes). It's a wonderful magical part of being human and I hope you all get to experience it someday.