What is your definition of an attractive person?

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07 Dec 2012, 8:55 pm

Say, a girl with full cheeks versus high-cheekbones, big eyes, etc? Or a man with a baby face or a more chiseled look?



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07 Dec 2012, 9:08 pm

I couldn't define it if I tried. I know it when I see it, and it's never the same twice. I am rarely attracted to "typical" good looks. It's pretty rare that I find any woman on TV or in movies attractive. Too much perfection in popular venues. I like an obvious imperfection here and there, but it depends on what it is and who it's on.

Personality is everything though. without that, the rest doesn't matter at all.

This might give you an idea of what I mean:

Out of the following image search in google, this is was the first face that jumped out at me. Image

Here's the search link:

https://www.google.com/search?q=women&a ... 0QGB74HQAg

See how far down it is on the page. Nothing above it jumped out saying "attractive" to me.


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07 Dec 2012, 9:11 pm

An attractive person is one to whom I am attracted.


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07 Dec 2012, 10:18 pm

jagatai wrote:
An attractive person is one to whom I am attracted.


Seconded.



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07 Dec 2012, 10:28 pm

jagatai wrote:
An attractive person is one to whom I am attracted.


Actually, come to think of it, I'm showing my self-centeredness here. A better definition would be "a person to whom SOMEONE is attracted". (It doesn't have to be me)

When you look at it this way, with the wide range of tastes that the different people of the world have, it means that most people are attractive. :)


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07 Dec 2012, 11:17 pm

somebody who is-

*sexy
*kind
*wants me.



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08 Dec 2012, 12:25 am

jagatai wrote:
jagatai wrote:
An attractive person is one to whom I am attracted.


Actually, come to think of it, I'm showing my self-centeredness here. A better definition would be "a person to whom SOMEONE is attracted". (It doesn't have to be me)

When you look at it this way, with the wide range of tastes that the different people of the world have, it means that most people are attractive. :)


I like that way of looking at things. I know I'm always disagreeing with people over what guys are attractive and which aren't. I know there are people out there that most others would agree are unattractive, but tastes do vary a lot... There are so many "good looking" guys that just don't do anything for me and some guys that are considered "average/weird" that really catch my eye.



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08 Dec 2012, 2:54 am

I seem to be rather arbitrary in my taste in people. Sometimes I see someone who is just the right combo of features for me and I go "damn that's hot". But this is totally unpredictable



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08 Dec 2012, 3:22 am

Sharp facial structure~
Geeky glasses~
Tomboyish looks~
Is better at video games than me~

I've always been much more attracted to girls with tomboy style of clothing and short hair :3



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08 Dec 2012, 12:47 pm

Someone with a sweet personality, great smile and beautiful eyes.



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08 Dec 2012, 12:47 pm

Physically, I like runner girls. Tall, thin, well-developed lower body. Also I really like girls who wear glasses. For personality, I like people in general, not just girls, who are outgoing, like to talk, like to party, and are intelligent. I find female self-confidence extremely attractive. Excessive bitching and complaining is an instant turn-off for me.



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08 Dec 2012, 1:47 pm

cakey wrote:
Say, a girl with full cheeks versus high-cheekbones, big eyes, etc? Or a man with a baby face or a more chiseled look?


Your face is quite attractive, can't tell about your body.



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08 Dec 2012, 2:19 pm

General: Living monogamous heterosexual female human adult.

Lacking: Addictions, criminal record, deception, delusions, emotional baggage, illnesses, insanity, obesity, piercings, political affiliation, prejudices, religion, tattoos, and violent behavior.

Possessing: Compassion, education, grace, health, humor, honesty, intelligence, passion, and wisdom.

Bonuses: Pleasant voice, curvaceous figure, sexual energy and interest, and her own wealth.

Deal-Breakers: Addiction, amputation, anorexia, compulsion, criminality, fanaticism, illness (chronic or terminal), infidelity, insanity, obesity, obsession, racism, sexism, smoking, and violence.



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08 Dec 2012, 2:28 pm

Interesting replies, I was just curious about how people view attractiveness differently. And Boo, I wasn't asking about me lol.



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08 Dec 2012, 4:33 pm

Someone who likes books, and motorcycles, and cars, and the sea and animals and forests. Someone who is confident but not arrogant. Someone with passion and pizzazz . Someone kind and honest and respectful.

Physically... I don't know. Chemistry(?).



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08 Dec 2012, 5:46 pm

A girl with a kind heart, but with a bit of a rebel side. A girl who's always looking for adventuous ways to go about the day. Perhaps my biggest thing is to find a gal who can match my creativity so we can create something beautiful. I also love a girl who can kick my ass at video games, that's always a plus. I also like a girl with an independant side and cares for her body. ^_^


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