Vectorspace wrote:
This is a poll for those who are currently in a romantic relationship or have been in a relationship earlier.
Please answer the following questions:
What's your gender?
Is your girlfriend/boyfriend/spouse an Aspie or an NT?
Who of you made the first move that initiated the relationship?
If it was you: How did you know that it was the right time to do so?
If it was her/him: Did you get the hint?
In what location and in what occasion did this "first move" take place?
What action did this "first move" consist of?
What qualities of her/him did you find attractive at that time?
How long had you known her/him before?
Female - NT
Boyfriend of over a year is Aspie
He definitely initiated the relationship
Yes, I got the hint he made it very clear. lol
On FB after I had contacted him about being a drummer in a friends band for a music video.
Telling me I was beautiful and to text him where he then promptly told me he wanted to take me out.
His sincerity, his mannerisms and his looks were the initial attraction for me.
I didn't know him. The bass player in his band was a friend of mine and he had seen pictures of me but I didn't really know anything about him.
15 Dec 2012, 1:17 pm
