Wishes in love

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All you have to do in thus thread is describe any romantic wishes you want to have come true.
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Mine is for the woman of my dreams to come to me, accept my offer to move to L.A. with me, and for my parents to not be so obstructive (lest the police come after them....)

I wish somebody would flirt with me a little so I don't feel so old and shabby and invisible. I'm not going to fool around on my husband, but what good is the resolve if it doesn't get tested every once in a while?

I wish race was not a factor in dating.

I want to hear this from the woman who love me most (in spite of my curse): "Yes, Johnny; I will marry you..... (in case she doesn't live in LA)... and I will move to LA with you."

Acceptance. For a girl to accept me as I am, all of me, good and bad and still just love me anyway.

Agreed.

Hope I find my Kagone to my Inuyasha!

I just want him in my life.

Yes, same here

Live closer to my boyfriend and see him more often.

Ah.... if there were a girl out there that was a wee bit adventurous, athletic, was able to deal with my travel arrangements, and understanding as to how I do need some "me" time without (her) getting hung up on it.

The joys of living with the great outdoors, the cities, and spread between a few cities. You find the ones who are 100% city, or 100% clingy.

Let's go motorbike riding until we are so exhausted, we just fall asleep in each other's arms.

Haha, come to CA (SF, Sacramento or Tahoe) and I'll take you out for drinks, dinner, movie (the typical NT stuff) and then we can take a nice long drive to Oregon/Utah and I can pick up a new KTM 500EXC. Otherwise, you can see if you want to go for a nice ride on the back of a 2013 F800 (Kalamata).

Heck, if you're down for it, I have two pairs of snow boards (and of course skis) and we can enjoy a bit of the weather in Tahoe.

It's not dirt bike season any more.

I'd like to find someone who is nice, kind, friendly. Who will talk to me and listen to me. Teach me and learn from me.
Someone who likes some time on his own like I do. Someone I can sit in the same room with and neither of us speaks for hours and the silence feels comfortable, not awkward.

A love of live music, Chinese food, Full English Breakfasts, strolls in parks, stargazing and evenings in cosy pubs would be nice too.

Merle,I don't do socialising.

As for the other thread, I refuse to reply to you there because it was meant to be purely lighthearted banter .

Thanks for enlightening me on the NT/Aspie aspects, and asking me if I am sure I am not NT. I am positive, that your PhD on the matter of women with ASD , and your deep knowledge of my situation, qualifies you to make such comments.

Could have gone private, but if you want to take it public, your choice.

Your welcome.

I'm glad to be a service to someone who would want to seek a deeper understanding of their peculiar situation from someone who is looking in from the outside on their situation pointing at the obvious misgivings/understandings they're encountering. Since you are more than willing to put yourself, your situation out in public, recognize that you are freely accepting the critique from others by doing so.

Obviously, if you didn't want someone to point at the blatant and relevant facts out to you, you could refrain from posting. But because you did (post) and you being here, you are seeking (or willing to give) guidance on a variety of subjects, including your own personality. With "communication" being bi-directional, no one who is enlightened should be closed minded from receiving input from others.

I am more than willing to discuss my personal, mental or other situations that I present to the world. I, not being a hypocrite, would expect the world to critique my choices and hopefully offer an opinion/insight I wasn't privy to before.

And isn't that why we are here, to share? Or are we here to just engage in "light hearted banter"?