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lildude674
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21 Dec 2012, 5:06 pm

so there's this girl I like, she thinks i'm a genius and has repeatedly stated that she wishes she could be as smart as me she is very kind, tolerant of others, she thinks i'm funny and she has a brother with asperger's shes not very good in our chemistry class, which i excel at so i tutor her while in another class we have together she often tells me how jealous she is of my intellect but she doesn't know that i have asperger's i think shes cute and i like her a lot i think its because having a brother with asperger's she unconsciously understands me. i don't know if she is interested in me and i don't know what to do I've never been romantically involved with anyone.



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21 Dec 2012, 6:24 pm

ask her out if you like her.

sorry to be so simplistic but that is the answer imo. But of course she must like you to say yes - imo you should know that - women drop hints.



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21 Dec 2012, 8:44 pm

answeraspergers wrote:
...women drop hints.


Um. Yeah, they do. And "hints" are hard for aspies to read, if not impossible.

I was going to write a song many years ago called "Hit me in the head with a 2 X 4" because that's what it took for me to realize a girl was interested in me. If a girl didn't practically maul me, I had no idea.

But yeah. Ask her out anyway. It's pretty much the only way.


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22 Dec 2012, 12:00 am

Need help asking her out? Here are some tips.

1. Remember when you ask this girl out, don't make it this huge orchestrated event in your head. You're gonna get yourself nervous. Relax--no big deal.

2. Ask her out bro, what do you have to lose?

3. Ok imagine that you knew you were going to die tommorow. And if you didn't ask her out, it was going to be too late. Tell her how you really feel because you won't have tommorow.


Well thats all I got.