It never worked out that way for me as an aspie boy, though when I developed a more metal appearance myself I had sort of prep girls claiming to be closet metal fans. These days it doesn't matter that much to me about outer appearances but as a rule people like to be with someone who displays a bit of the same appearance as them - I've even heard of the term 'couple costume" for what they wear when together in public. .OP could probably get by with just wearing T-shirts of whatever bands they like
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Let's go on out and take a moped ride, and all your friends will thing your brain is fried, but you can't live your life too dirty, 'cause in the the end you're born to go 30