This. ^^
Additionally, it depends on what you mean by "NT." The term is used an awful lot on WP, but we don't all mean the same thing when we use it. For some of us, it's very specific. For others, it's extremely ambiguous. In reality, all it really means is "non-autistic." And that isn't really saying much about anybody individually speaking.
I wouldn't bother thinking in terms of "NT." It's a waste of time to me. You either click with somebody, or you don't. It doesn't really matter that much if they're on the spectrum or not.
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I'm not likely to be around much longer. As before when I first signed up here years ago, I'm finding that after a long hiatus, and after only a few days back on here, I'm spending way too much time here again already. So I'm requesting my account be locked, banned or whatever. It's just time. Until then, well, I dunno...