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20 Dec 2012, 3:47 pm

What should I do to hook up with NT girls?

I have tried this for some time, but I am doomed to fail now. I have been chatting with so many girls that I suspect that they have been talking to eachother about that weirdo who tries to hook up with everyone... :roll:

There was one girl who I liked, and we chatted for a while, she was impressed with my grades, and then she made a sarcastic comment saying my grades were low, and I didn't take it, and she lost interest...

Any tips?



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21 Dec 2012, 8:25 am

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21 Dec 2012, 9:07 pm

1814 wrote:
What should I do to hook up with NT girls?

Maybe your like me & aren't compatible with typical NT girls. Perhaps you'd have better luck trying to hook up with nontypical girls; like someone on the spectrum or spectrum qualities or someone who's just very unique/different from NT.


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23 Dec 2012, 10:35 pm

Without more information...

"hookup"?

Find an escort. Practice.



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26 Dec 2012, 12:17 am

First thing you should do is stop segregating so-called "NTs" from so-called "aspies". It's so Jim Crow.



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26 Dec 2012, 12:23 am

"NT girls" aren't one single unified entity. so generalised advice is not likely to help you very much.

we don't really know anything about you, your interests, your approach, your age, your peer group, how you come across, etc. could you give us some more background?


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26 Dec 2012, 12:35 pm

This. ^^

Additionally, it depends on what you mean by "NT." The term is used an awful lot on WP, but we don't all mean the same thing when we use it. For some of us, it's very specific. For others, it's extremely ambiguous. In reality, all it really means is "non-autistic." And that isn't really saying much about anybody individually speaking.

I wouldn't bother thinking in terms of "NT." It's a waste of time to me. You either click with somebody, or you don't. It doesn't really matter that much if they're on the spectrum or not.


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26 Dec 2012, 3:18 pm

imitate behaviours of the NT male, simple really
or imitate the cuttlefish as seen below

Squid-like cuttlefish are known for their amazing camouflage abilities, thanks to specialized skin cells that allow them to change color in the blink of an eye. Now research finds that these clever mollusks use their color-changing abilities in creative ways: by pretending to be the other gender.

Well, half-pretending, that is.

When a male cuttlefish is wooing a lady, he often "cheats" by painting typical female patterns on one side of his body, while the other side ? the one facing the female ? shows off typical male patterns. This gender-bending disguise fools rival males into thinking they're seeing just a couple of ladies hanging out. That means more of an opportunity for the cheater cuttlefish to mate.

"By using this sneaky display, the males are buying more time to convince the girls to mate before they are discovered by other males," said study researcher Culum Brown, a biologist at Macquarie University in Australia



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26 Dec 2012, 6:30 pm

Surfman wrote:
imitate behaviours of the NT male, simple really
or imitate the cuttlefish as seen below


I see it a bit more like the angler fish.
How the male angler fish is completely screwed.
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27 Dec 2012, 6:39 am

Sprinkle glitter on yourself.
Tell them you're a vampire.
Chicks dig vampires these days.



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29 Dec 2012, 10:23 pm

Act like your not interested in them and be indifferent they will come to you. It works for me anyway.


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30 Dec 2012, 12:04 am

Hookers.


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30 Dec 2012, 12:13 am

Palakol wrote:
Hookers.
Hookers are a waste of money


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30 Dec 2012, 12:33 am

mfs1013 wrote:
Hookers are a waste of money

Not if you're looking for a hook. It's like ordering fast food when it's too much work to go and cook your own food.


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30 Dec 2012, 12:37 am

AspieOtaku wrote:
Act like your not interested in them and be indifferent they will come to you. It works for me anyway.


I've been doing this for years and it's not worked, but ok.